Me and my partner want to have a baby, but not the "natural" way. I want to know. If I wanted to have baby, just by doing it turkey bastor style, how would I? I already have a donor. I just need to know HOW exactly to do it. Is there a CLEAN website, that will give you step by step instructions on how to do this with being able to get pregnant? Thanks!
2007-01-29 05:37:36 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
It can be done, but it uis far better to have it done at the doctor's office. But, if you really want to do it, yes, you can have the man ejaculate intoa cup, then use a plastic syringe to insert it into you.
Before you do so, please make sure you understand all of the ramifications. Has your donor been tested. Is your donor going to be in the child's life? If not, have you had a lawyer draw up papers waiving the biological father's right to the child and also exempting him from child support? Does your partner know that if you break up, she does not automatically have rights to the child?
Buy and read the book The Ultimate Guide to Pregnancy for Lesbians: Tips and Techniques from Conception to Birth : How to Stay Sane and Care for Yourself by Rachel Pepper. That will help with a lot of the questions that you must resolve before you do this.
2007-01-29 06:10:27 · answer #1 · answered by Beth B 4 · 5⤊ 1⤋
I think if you are planning to have a baby like this you should see your doctor for the best chances. . there are other steps that you will have to take. There are fertility drugs they put you on, and you may not get pregnant the first time around. The timing has to be perfect.
If you use your partner's sperm (sperm donor) the average cost of artificial insemination in the United States is between $300 and $700 per cycle. The cost may vary depending on your clinic, where you live, and whether you use donor sperm (which is a little more expensive than using your partner's). If your insurance policy doesn't cover this treatment, you'll have to pay the entire cost up front.
2007-01-29 05:51:29 · answer #2 · answered by sweet_treat101 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I would just do it the natural way.. take one of the test so you know when you are ovulating and just get it done and over with maybe you partner can be there for you .. I know how expensive it is the other way..
2007-01-29 06:13:12 · answer #3 · answered by gonecrzy70 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you want a child badly enough you ought to be able to grit your teeth and let the donor impregnate you naturally. If that doesn't work the first time, you just keep trying, and you never know, maybe you'll realize that there is something to be said for the full- time male influence of a natural father's presence in a child's life. The potential child deserves your giving this a lot of serious thought.
2007-01-29 06:04:43 · answer #4 · answered by lurned1 3 · 2⤊ 5⤋
I suggest saving $$ to have the procedure done properly & medically to ensure better chances of impregnating.
2007-01-29 05:41:14 · answer #5 · answered by Raynebow_Diva 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-28 03:07:28 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
adopt
2007-01-29 05:42:13 · answer #7 · answered by prettyface 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure you are fit to have children?
2007-01-29 05:45:40 · answer #8 · answered by MaryCheneysAccessory 6 · 1⤊ 4⤋