2007-01-29 05:21:27 · 7 answers · asked by lilgigglez2207 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Take them out and buy them all dinner and drinks and a cab home. They will love you for it. But don't flaunt it, just say you want to go out and rage it and since you wanna do it your way it would only be proper if you paid! Good luck!
2007-01-29 05:29:38 · answer #1 · answered by Whirled Peas 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go Slumming on occasion and don't find yourself in a position where you always end up paying because you feel guilty or over privileged.
That's a hard one.
I wasn't rich, but when I was younger I was completely independent, where none of my friends had jobs. I often found myself doing things that I didn't want to do in places I didn't want to go and I paid a lot more than I should have just to be able to hang out. Which never really got me anywhere or anything. Most of them were really not worth my time (that's what I meant by "slumming")
Eventually I realized that I enjoyed the company of a few certain people that had jobs and goals and actually considered spending the afternoon in a museum and lunch afterward to be a good thing.
Everyone grows in and out of their relationships. The older you get the more you realize how sometimes, it is not snobby to hang out with your equals, but more beneficial to your own growth and happiness.
2007-01-29 13:39:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, don't rub their noses in it. Money isn't relevant in friendships.
I also have far more than most of my friends. We go places they can afford, and go dutch treat. On occasion I pick up the check and say we're celebrating friendship, hedgehog day or something silly like that.
If you try to take the check every time, you may find yourself wondering if they just like you for your money. Then word gets around that you pay the tab and other people attach themselves to you for your money...been there!!!
2007-01-29 13:36:05 · answer #3 · answered by diannegoodwin@sbcglobal.net 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you rich or our your parents rich? there is a difference. Who cares if you have money and they don't. Do what you want to do and don't worry about it.
2007-01-29 13:31:26 · answer #4 · answered by echc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just don't tell them (of course when you live in a HUGE house, it's hard to hid that). And if they are constantly asking for your money, they are not your friend, and don't give them money.
2007-01-29 13:46:48 · answer #5 · answered by tkdlindz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are still my friends. I will treat them more often. Money does not change me.
2007-01-29 13:30:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
be nice to them
2007-01-31 15:49:45 · answer #7 · answered by eenglish4france1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋