is it normal for my boyfriend to get pleasure from trying to make me cry.
2007-01-29 05:13:57 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
I think it depends if it's mean spirited or not. My husband likes to "play" with me. For example, yesterday he looked at me and said "Okay...cry!" And sure enough I did. It was a funny moment that we could bond over. But he knows when to goof around and when to be sensitive adn respect my feelings. However, if your b/f is purposely saying mean things to you, I would talk to him adn tell him that this is already a difficult time in your life and he's not making things easier.
2007-01-29 05:21:46 · answer #1 · answered by poohb2878 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I swear 2 god u sound exactly like me i am 28wks pregnant myself and im sure my boyfriend loves t c me upset it all started when i found out i was pregnant he was like no get rid as he as got 2 kids already and its not like i planned 2 get pregnant it just happened and ite not like we just met we been 2geta 4 2 and a half yrs,anyway as u can guess i didnt get rid and it seemed like he was comin round t the idea,but all of a sudden after wks of been ok its bak t square1 and all i do is cry,cry,cry!!!its terriblemen do not understand what its like 4 us its hard enough been pregnant we dont need all the crap they put on us 2.i no its hard love its same 4 me take care and try enjoy your pregnancy i no its easier said than done when u have loads on your mind x
2007-01-29 07:04:45 · answer #2 · answered by gemma g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being emotional during pregnancy is totally commonplace but what isn't commonplace is our partners taking pleasure from it.
Is he aware of how emotional you are feeling and does he think he is helping somehow?
As you get closer and closer to your due date you will need more and more support and he needs to be aware of this.
I have mentioned several times in different answers about our family website www.fabfamilies.com - please feel free to register (for free) and come and talk to people who have been/are going through the joys of pregnancy and you will get lots of support there.
2007-01-29 06:02:31 · answer #3 · answered by The Dragon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No hun at this stage you will feel very emotional and confused. You will feel as though people will be getting on your back its all down to hormones. Try and not let it worry you too much xx
2007-01-29 08:18:18 · answer #4 · answered by janine e 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your boyfriend sounds like an a sshole. Leave him or one day he will take pleasure in making your child cry.
2007-01-29 06:14:38 · answer #5 · answered by *Just Married* 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh my god no, that is so mean and wrong. he should be ashamed of himself for doing that to you. dont take his crap, you are pregnant and deserve to be treated better than that. GOOD LUCK AND GOD BLESS!!
2007-01-29 05:21:08 · answer #6 · answered by BaBy KiSsEs!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it's not so dont let him,or are you'r hormones speaking for you.
2007-01-29 05:24:58 · answer #7 · answered by twinsters 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, that's just mean :(
2007-01-29 05:22:22 · answer #8 · answered by Gig 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um...no!!
2007-02-01 06:44:00 · answer #9 · answered by Sexy Chick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋