How can I change there Minds ? What can I tell them ? PLEASE HELP
2007-01-29 05:12:40 · 10 answers · asked by Marie R 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Maybe you need to help your friend to get to know different color people and they might think that their not so bad after all but it may not work because its up to them to like them or not....they don't have to like them but they must love them....well if it don't work at least you tried
2007-01-29 05:20:03 · answer #1 · answered by sexsired 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, the hard thing is that you can not really. Unfortunately they first have to realise that people from different races are just as normal as we are... Well, I am white, dating a black guy and I had to let go of many of my friends because they just did not agree with cross-cultural relationships... guess what... so many of them came back a bit later... and once they met him they all became good buddies. It is process, takes time, and sometimes never happens.
Good luck though!!!
2007-01-29 13:51:45 · answer #2 · answered by Sonstraal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is nothing you can do to change someones mind other than your own, no matter how hard you try you just cant do it, sometimes it takes some one like yourself to think that if there was something that you could do to help. but you can not take that on yourself. if it was that easy we could change everything in the world!! Just be your self and dont let everyone change your thinking and who you are. just be your self and let eveyone else be theirs too!
Good luck
2007-01-29 13:26:47 · answer #3 · answered by Robin t 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You probably can't. They might have been raised that way to dislike other races. If they don't like you for who you are, forget them. They aren't worth it.
You really want a friend that you have to convince because you're African American?????
2007-01-29 13:18:07 · answer #4 · answered by Jenna 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dear u cant make ppl change their minds.believe me ive been in the same situation,ppl are set in their own ways,everyone should be equal but some just dont see it like that.good luck
2007-01-29 13:18:19 · answer #5 · answered by tootsieroll1965 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't. She has the right to feel the way she does, the only one who can make her change is God and herself-if she chooses. I know....my sister is racist!
2007-01-29 13:16:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
friends like that are bad influence
2007-01-29 13:23:59 · answer #7 · answered by sami-joe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just dont wast your time,the world is not going to end just because they hate other people.
2007-01-29 13:18:33 · answer #8 · answered by mack j 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get new friends!
2007-01-29 13:17:04 · answer #9 · answered by Debbie 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You can't. S/he will always be that way.
2007-01-29 16:22:07 · answer #10 · answered by shay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋