I have 3 best friends and I have been sich, so I haven't seen them in awhile. I think they either don't wnat me in the group anymore or its just I haven't been at school for awhile. And I want to know. I'm sad.
2007-01-29 05:04:13 · 18 answers · asked by thnkpink933 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Once you get back into the routine of things, see what happens. If they talk to you, then they are real friends. If they don't, they weren't friends to begin with. Find new ones. Maybe even try joining a club in school with some people who treat you better. Cheer up... :)
2007-01-29 05:11:43 · answer #1 · answered by Jenna 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call them one at a time. Just tell them that you've been sick and want to "check in".Have them tell you what's new in their life, and what you've missed... If you're better, have one or all over for a movie or lunch...maybe you could "conference call" all 3 at once! that would be fun..If they really are your friends, then great..if they "don't want you in the group" then they aren't friends..those are "sheep". Be yourself. Hope you feel better soon.
2007-01-29 13:15:43 · answer #2 · answered by HowlnWoof 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be sad!!! So called friends come and go. Your true friends will be around when you are sick and in the time of need. I would say first try contacting them, they may have a problem themselves. If that doesnt work move on!!
2007-01-29 13:11:10 · answer #3 · answered by lazy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they were really you're friends they would come see you regardless of the situation.Friends are there for you through the good and the bad.If they run away during the bad they were never your friends anyhow.
2007-01-29 13:08:54 · answer #4 · answered by jessica b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just give it time!It will makeeverything the way you want them to be!but if it didn`t work go tell them....OR You can find some new friends!But me myself my friends are really important to me!so I`ll do everything to have them back!
2007-01-29 14:17:34 · answer #5 · answered by taqua_12 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would ask the person you are the most friendly with to be honest with you and tell you what is wrong. You may discover that one girl is being mean, and the others are following!
2007-01-29 13:08:47 · answer #6 · answered by Bird Breath 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
They aren't your real friends if they're ignoring you after you were sick! It's not like you could help that. Did they even call or visit to see how you were doing? You don't need fairweather friends, time to upgrade!!!
2007-01-29 13:08:48 · answer #7 · answered by ♪ ♫Jin_Jur♫ ♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Basically, you just need to settle back into things.
But if things get worse, don't waste your time moping, (which I did and I now regret it). Try and make some new friends.
2007-01-29 13:07:42 · answer #8 · answered by ☼lola☼ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call up the girls individually and talk to them or make plans to hang out. girls in groups can be real bitchy. better to split them up at first so they aren't in nasty group mode. then when they're alone and you two have fun, they'll be more likely to stick up for you to the group. trust me, it gets better after high school.
2007-01-29 13:09:15 · answer #9 · answered by imnotachickenyoureaturkey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
even though you have been sick and if they were really good true friends they would find a way to come visits you no matter what the problem is.
2007-01-29 13:09:47 · answer #10 · answered by mnmpeices 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋