right im 14 soon to be 15 and my girlfriend is 15 soon to be 16.How do we tell our parents that she is pregnant?
Thank You
2007-01-29 04:28:13 · 11 answers · asked by Disturbed666 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Well I doubt they are going to be thrilled about the situation. You better just tell them point blank. There is no easy way to tell a parent you are pregnant at 15!
2007-01-29 04:31:53 · answer #1 · answered by Mommy of 2 Boys 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop hiding and sneaking around. Apparently that's how she got pregnant in the first place. Stand up, be a man and tell them the truth. If you didn't want to get burned you shouldn't have been playing with fire! You both need adult help since you thought you were adults far too soon yourselves. Having a baby is a huge deal to real adults so get help now. Don't be stupid and try to hide this from them. Don't throw the baby in a trash can at school, don't do whatever else teens do when they can't suck it up and tell their parents they are pregnant. It is going to suck no matter how you do it so just tell them and get it over with. In the long run, things will work out. If having a baby was easy everyone would have 20 of them. So just tell them the truth now so your girlfriend and the baby can get the medical attention they needs to be safe and healthy. You need to learn how to communicate now since there are going to be a million things the two of you and your families are going to have to work out for everything to work out.
2007-01-29 12:46:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wear a helmet. I would advise you start searching for a job too. You felt old enough to have sex, so now it's time to REALLY grow up and support your family now. DO NOT leave school either. An education is the only hope you will have for a decent future.
Be honest with both sets of parents. I would gather them all together. But, the helmet is the key. Head trauma is sure to happen.
2007-01-29 12:35:34 · answer #3 · answered by zinntwinnies 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Schedule times to do it. If you think it will go ok, do it all together. If not, tell her parents first. Plan out what you want to say. Emphasize the things you will take responsibility for. If you are going to put the baby up for adoption, look into it and tell them what you know. If you are keeping it, find a job. Tell them how you plan to work out the money. The more you show them that you are going to stand up, be responsible, and take care of this, the better they will react.
They are going to be upset and angry. Let them be angry. Just try to make them focus on the future and not the past. There are lots of resources out there to help you. Your job as dad will be to help mom find these resources.
Good luck!
2007-01-29 12:35:10 · answer #4 · answered by Medical Disaster 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was 20 when i first found out i was pregnant. I told my parents and he told his parents. Then we all had a "dinner" together to celebrate and talk as a family. I'm thinking this might be the best way to go about it. Since the girls family are usually more distraut then the boys family it might be better to host the dinner at your place. Best of luck to you.
2007-01-29 12:33:55 · answer #5 · answered by Gig 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell them. don't keep it from them for any amount of time longer than neccessary. i was 14 when i found out i was pregnant and my mom knew about it but i did not tell my dad until i was 6 months and it hurt him so bad and i have regretted it since then. hope this helps, tell them asap. don't him haw around the truth just be straight forward with them and tell them, and if she is a country girl, you have approx. 2 to 3 seconds head start out the door before her father or older brother if she has one comes to kill you! j/k but seriously lay low for a while once you have told them because it will be hard for them to accept. hope this helps, holly. p.s. good luck with this and on the baby
2007-01-29 12:34:08 · answer #6 · answered by Holly D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wish I could be there to help you two!
I would find an adult you both trust and love, someone who will support you and guide you along the way... after, have that adult go with you when you tell your parents! Try to tell each set of parents seperately, and remember to act as mature as you can. Hopefully, this adult will be able to smooth out any name calling and ease the difficult times!
2007-01-29 12:34:52 · answer #7 · answered by Nick's Mom 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think it is best if you tell them sooner(parents) so that you can figure out a solution that will benefit you, your girlfriend and your unborn child. SOmetimes when you don't do things sooner the problems cumilate and they get out of control. I know it is gonna be hard to do that but sometimes you have to be brave(infact most of the time)
2007-01-29 12:35:06 · answer #8 · answered by kiwi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just tell them, simple as that, and get ready to do lots of explaining. The simplest solution is usually the best. At this age, you're most likely going to have lots of hell to pay, but you'll survive it. Take a deep breath and tell them.
2007-01-29 12:32:23 · answer #9 · answered by barnaclesally 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be like i have to tell u something..im pregnant...she'll find out one way or the other pretty soon
2007-01-29 12:31:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋