we used to talk on the phone everyday and see each other at least 2 or 3x a week. now we see each other maybe once a week and only talk sometimes. we are sexually active. when we r together he holds me and kisses me and makes me feel like he cares but then he won't always call the next day and we only see each other late at nite-like after 8 p.m. we never defined our relationship other than to say that we r only sleeping w/each other. we don't talk about our personal lives-like family or friends-but he did get mad when i talked to my ex in front of him. do u think i am justa booty call or does he like me? he says i can call him anytime and we don't always have sex. sometimes even when i am on my period and he knows it he still wants me to come over just to see him. i am so confused! i want to talk to him but i don't want to push him away. i am 25 and he is32.
2007-01-29 04:22:06 · 15 answers · asked by Jasm 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Unfortunately it sounds like a booty call for few reasons:
1) He dont call you as much or like he used to.
2) Sometimes he dont call you for few days after you had sex. Definitely not good. Sounds like str8 up booty call where no strings are attached and he may be messing with someone else next day after he messed with you.
3) You guys dont go out on proper dates. he just comes by after 8 pm to get some sexin and go away next morning. Hmm sounds like thats all he needs.
4) You dont discuss your families, personal lives, anything that comes to each other on personal level not just sexual. He probably never even asked you anything about you when it comes to your childhood, parents, your personal interests, future goals, etc.
Now he may like you though so dont get it twisted. But its very complicated. And maybe its a time for you to move on anyways now that he havent seen you for 6 month. Most likely he is with somebody and that is why he just ended it like that without any special explanation because remember it hever really been more serious then sex.
2007-01-29 04:36:18 · answer #1 · answered by BK thang 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to talk to him. Tell him you would like to know where you stand relationship wise. Be honest with him, let him know you are having feelings that you are just sex buddies and need to know. Let him know how things have changed and that you would like honesty from him, no matter what it is. It seems as if you were happy just being a booty call until the talking stopped and the visits were less frequent. If you never established any type of relationship with him, and you don't really talk to each other about important issues......all you had was a sexual relationship. You can't really be mad at him for things, but you do deserve honesty.
2007-01-29 04:42:57 · answer #2 · answered by Stephanie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, you're 25. You should know by now that a guy who hasn't "defined" a relationship with you after 6 months and barely talks to you is a BOOTY CALL. Shape up or ship out. He just wants the sex.
2007-01-29 04:40:13 · answer #3 · answered by Mimi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're just a booty call to him. People who really like and care for each other want to share more than just sex ... they want to share what's going on in their jobs, their families, their lives. Do yourself a favor, and find a guy who will value everything about you!
2007-01-29 04:30:20 · answer #4 · answered by baeb47 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sound like he likes the relationship just the way it is. He gets everything he wants at his convience, he does not want to move on right now making a bigger commitment to you, You need to decide if it is ok with you to just keep things the way they are or if you need something more.
2007-01-29 04:30:58 · answer #5 · answered by DKNY 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this doesn't sound good. I think he likes you, but not THAT much, otherwise he woudl be calling everyday and including you in his life more. If this is okay with you, stay with him, but if you want something more, or if youre interested in marriage or children or in finding a guy who loves you, then I would move on.
2007-01-29 04:52:16 · answer #6 · answered by stripedbook 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well maybe you need to let him know how you feel and then go from there, him being 32 I would assume he is going to tell you the truth on where you two stand.
2007-01-29 04:26:38 · answer #7 · answered by melimel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
kinda sounds like a booty call to me.. especially if you haven't defined your relationship and to quote you..
we never defined our relationship other than to say that we r only sleeping w/each other
we r only sleeping w/each other..
sounds like its only sex
2007-01-29 04:27:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
have confidence your thoughts. they are asserting you want greater from a guy. in case you probably did no longer desire greater, you does no longer have those thoughts. besides the reality which you're stable together now and lower back, your desires are no longer being met. you're able to communicate it with him. If he won't have the ability to comprehend, or would not want to place that a lot artwork into your courting, its time to go on. as much because it ought to break, you would be happier in the long-term.
2016-11-28 03:00:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time to move on. You are his booty call.
2007-01-29 04:25:30 · answer #10 · answered by Traci J 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋