My friend chose a guy she has known for at least three weeks over a friend of at least seven years. she claims she loves him but all he really wants is to get in her pants. when she decides not to do anything he gets mad and treats her like crap.
2007-01-29 04:21:10 · 11 answers · asked by shy_grl_08 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
what you have to rember is that there are people in the world who are slow learners. Your friend needs to look at her self and find out who she is and what she wants, if she doesnt do that then she will keep getting herself in situations like the one shes in now. You have to be strong so whern she does get hurt and needs you ,you can be there. but yiu have to rember that your worth something too......
2007-01-29 04:27:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone makes mistakes when it comes to affairs of the heart. People don't always want to hear what friends and family think when their heart is telling them something else. It's not that she is chosing him over you, it is a completely different type of relationship. If all that you say is true, she will need you in the end. Don't give her the I told you so line, just listen to her and be there for her. She will be apologizing to you more than you could ever imagine when it is all said and done. How will you feel if he turns out to be the man she marries and spends the rest of her life with? Will you feel bad for telling her in the beginning that he wasn't any good? I know you are trying to protect her and look out for her best intrest, but when the heart is involved, it isn't a clear cut situation. People have to make their own mistakes and learn from them.
2007-01-29 04:47:08 · answer #2 · answered by Stephanie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look, I'm sorry, but you can't just take an internet poll and pick like that. These are two people we're talking about here, not which pair of socks you'd like to wear today. Your friend Meg needs to make her own decision and decide for herself. Sometimes it's not a question of which one is hotter or funnier or nicer. Sometimes it's about which one will make you happier. And what each one is expecting from you. Does Patrick want sex, but JP wants to have a relationship? Important questions for Meg to think about... Decide Meg.
2016-03-29 08:07:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well there are things women need to learn about love, including to get hurt. Even thoughyou know it will hurt her in the long run.. it is something she has to expierence herself. I dont think that you should NOT be her friend anymore... when he dumps her... she will need someone for her heartache... but a boy can do things to her that you cant... kissing, touching.. and yes it does feel good.. to be wanted... but we need to learn how to handle creeps... the best way is to expirence it. So find other friends to do things with... sometimes. and let her know how u feel... even thought we have a boyfriend.. doesnt mean we dont need friends anymore... she might just not realize it now.. be the bigger person.. shell be back.
2007-01-29 04:43:07 · answer #4 · answered by c_leoo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell yopur friend that getting into the pants is like a treasure hunt. This is not to be thrown over, ask her to have some self respect. If the guy treats her badly, ask you friend to crap on him
2007-01-29 04:25:12 · answer #5 · answered by anecentric 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't do anything. Your friend needs to learn on her own that she has no confidence if she puts up with that. A true friend would keep their mouth shut but then when she comes crying and crawling back, you will be there for her.
2007-01-29 04:25:04 · answer #6 · answered by stripedbook 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's not a friend if she deals with relationships in this manner.The sooner you realize this the better. Guys will come and go but true friends are forever.
2007-01-29 04:28:18 · answer #7 · answered by Grianagh 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont turn your back on her but I would remind her when she shows back up that it isnt cool to pick a man over you. Guys come and go but friends are forever!!!!
2007-01-29 04:33:27 · answer #8 · answered by ScottishhoustonGirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't need friends like that, that's not a real friend.
2007-01-29 04:24:18 · answer #9 · answered by melimel 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she did that shes not a real friend.
2007-01-29 04:24:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋