im having his baby in june i love him and i know i cant do this on my own im only 18.....HELP!!!
2007-01-29 04:11:29 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
not enough info.
2007-01-29 04:15:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love him, are having his child why are you even thinking of leaving?? Is something going on that is putting you and the baby in danger if so Leave ASAP, and get help, if not and you love him as you say stay with him. But honestly if you can't take care of a baby on your own give up for adoption so someone who can give the baby everything they need can. YOur 18 and your too young for this responsibility next time keep your legs closed.
2007-01-29 13:43:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u feel uncomfortable leaving....then stay...it is your choice and if u stay u can always change your mind later...it really depends on if u have a network of friends and family that can offer assistance...having a child all on your own is most difficult...been there and done that....hardly had any food to eat and that was with government assistance.
2007-01-29 12:16:21 · answer #3 · answered by sunbun 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I told my daughter to stick it out! After the baby came, things calmed down and now they are getting married in May.
If he's not abusive towards you, then stay and see how things turn out. Your child has a right to both of his/her parents.
Good luck to you sweetie!
2007-01-29 12:21:32 · answer #4 · answered by Starla_C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't ever stay with someone just because you love him and youre having his baby. It's also important how he treats you and if he loves and respects you otherwise you set yourself and your child up for a life of misery and insecurity because he isn't going to change.
2007-01-29 12:23:17 · answer #5 · answered by stripedbook 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move back home for now till you can work out your thoughts and life... I wish you the best and for your baby as well!
2007-01-29 12:31:58 · answer #6 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you wan to leave? If you are having this guys child work at it. Depending on why you want to leave.
2007-02-02 05:22:59 · answer #7 · answered by soldierlady226 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you guys at least talk to eachother? if you guys do then maybe he should me helpoing you out because its yours and him. how bout your parents can they help? if not then you can always get child support from him. and about the love thing you guys should realyy talk together and see what you guys think. good luck
2007-01-29 12:18:19 · answer #8 · answered by loveablelucy22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is there some other reason in which you should leave him? has he hurt you in some way or is he abusive?
2007-01-29 12:15:15 · answer #9 · answered by lookingwesttexas 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋