People need to asset and explore.
2007-01-29 03:46:50 · 4 answers · asked by Manny 5 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
I am not sure what this means:"People need to asset and explore"? However it has been my experience infatuation rarely leads to intimate encounter and when it does it is often awkward and disappointing. The other women I have asked agree - attraction is always better than infatuation - and married intimacy is the best because the true commitment is there.
2007-01-29 03:56:07 · answer #1 · answered by Walking on Sunshine 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you mean as a result of?
Then I would imagine no... My index finger is more talented than most of the objects of my affection... Most attraction is 1/2 mental and 1/2 physical. In most cases, you never actually NEED the person at all. Interaction brings with it all of the elements that make for dissappointment. Especially opinions and emotions that usually tend to ruin things as soon as the infatuation wears off...
Probably dissappointing. I prefer the illusion to the actual event that comes as a result.
After all, the desire is the emotional part isin't it? That's what makes it fun! Once you get the object of your desire... It's like
Oh, okay, yeah okay... Thanks (For nothing) , Bye now!
In reality... people blend and merge at intervalls where all the kinks are worked out together... There is no dissappointment because it was a mutual kind of thing. Accepted and acknowledged.
I prefer my own reality to my own fantasy anyday. Fantasy just makes for better reading on the part of all those not involved...
Hence the whole penthouse forum thing.
2007-01-29 12:00:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope
2007-01-29 12:03:49 · answer #3 · answered by xxx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no
2007-01-29 11:54:07 · answer #4 · answered by jen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋