1.To marry the one you love?
or
2.Marry the one that loves you?
or
3.Of course the best is to have both of you loving each other..
i think i mite end up with none since my luck in the love department is terrible.
2007-01-29 03:42:46 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
marry the one you love... why spend the rest of your life with someone you don't even love...
2007-01-29 03:47:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
3
2007-02-05 02:51:03 · answer #2 · answered by mimiamours 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
As you say no3 is the ultimate, but no2 is very close second,
If you marry for love then no2 is the winner as long as it is unconditional love, to have someone love you unconditionally is probably what most of us want and need, and in the end isn't that what love and life are about, it took me three goes to get it right so i speak from experience, if someone loves you unconditionally then what more could anyone ask for, if you marry the one you love and they do not love you then you are in deep ****,but if they do love you then the feeling has to be reciprocal otherwise you don't love yourself and that can lead to a can of worms too.
2007-02-05 14:25:36 · answer #3 · answered by bazbikes49 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
number 3
2007-02-02 02:32:05 · answer #4 · answered by roxanne 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
3 of course
2007-02-05 02:19:06 · answer #5 · answered by angel 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The best of course is to marry someone you love, who loves you back.
2007-02-03 14:33:00 · answer #6 · answered by Sandi Beach 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Uh Number 3
2007-01-29 03:47:20 · answer #7 · answered by bdmrplemons 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
# 3 is the best option marrying someone that you love and that loves you back is a greta feeling. The respect that the marriage has is great and the lovemaking is a great plus.
2007-02-01 21:18:32 · answer #8 · answered by soldierlady226 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It has to be a mutual feeling both ways or it is a disaster from the start and usually does not work out or last. You need to find one that you love and that loves you and trust me he is out there somewhere... Go to match.com or a local dateline or even eharmony.com They can help you out... Do not give up and keep trying!
2007-01-29 03:59:15 · answer #9 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Number 3... Marriage, like friendship, is a two way street and needs to be nurtured... Either you're both in it with good intentions or not at all!!
GOOD LUCK!!!!
2007-01-29 03:48:42 · answer #10 · answered by Me! 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
#3 #1-2 is only going to cause you lots of pain. Marriage is for a lifetime.
2007-02-03 09:44:53 · answer #11 · answered by Michelle M 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋