2007-01-29 03:42:22 · 8 answers · asked by Morning dew 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
As it is generally impossible for you to like everyone all the time, such as which is it similarly impossible for everyone to like you all the time. Accept who you are and people will like you for being yourself, to try to change to suit others will only cause personal unhappiness.
2007-01-29 03:50:20 · answer #1 · answered by Jayne-Linda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't make sure everyone likes you. It is impossible. What you can do is develop qualities that are attractive. Honesty, integrity, tolerance, patience, kindness, intelligence, gentleness, and humility are very attractive qualities to most people. However, even if you have these qualities, there will be some who are envious of you. If you live your life trying to make sure that everyone likes you, then you will have to constantly change yourself to conform to what they consider attractive. Instead, concentrate on whether or not YOU like the person you are, and change yourself according to what you think is attractive. In this way, even if you are in a situation where no one likes you, you will still have you.
2007-01-29 11:55:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The less people like you, the less they expect of you, demand from you or force upon you with a smile.
Unless you are a "people person." I personally don't suggest it. I actually prefer being disliked. At least I am always my own person belonging to no one, subject to the moods and whims of no one but myself.
The way however (if you must) to get people to like you... Is to always be reasonable, plesant, agreeable and buy into the illusions of those you are attempting to get to like you.
If you don't fit their energy, frequency, expecations, their purpose for your being a part of their group or the role they have assigned to you as a result... Then you won't be welcome.
"All the world is a stage and all the men and women merely players."
2007-01-29 11:50:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not everyone is going to like you. But why would you want EVERYONE to like you? People should like you for you don't be someone your not so you can get everyone to like you. Be yourself and you have plenty of friends that truly care about you!
2007-01-29 11:51:38 · answer #4 · answered by ~J*me~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Abraham Lincoln once said, "You can please some of the people some of the time, but not all the people all the time." That being said, I don´t think it's possible for EVERYONE to like you, but I think the key to being well-liked is to be yourself and be open-minded and to not be judgemental.
2007-01-29 11:50:43 · answer #5 · answered by Em-uh-lee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself,it's not normal to want to be liked by everyone.You tend to lose yourself trying to make everyone like you.Be yourself and the rest will follow.Do some soul searching.Take care&good luck.
2007-01-29 11:53:57 · answer #6 · answered by Ms Lety 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't really care if everyone i meet likes me. i am my own person with a unique personality that wouldn't mesh well with others. i know this...
the only thing that matters is that the people who know and love you the most do.
i wouldn't spend too much time trying to please everyone, you'll just make yourself miserable. be you and be happy.
2007-01-29 11:54:37 · answer #7 · answered by frost7216 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you are asking is impossible!!!! YOU MUST LEARN TO PICK YOUR OWN FRIENDS!!! QUIT TRYING TO PLEASE EVERYONE AND BEING OBSESSED WITH PEOPLE LIKING YOU!!! BELIEVE ME ITS A DEAD END!!!!! IT IS NOT GOING TO HAPPEN!!!! YOU WILL BE LUCKY IF WHEN YOUR DEAD THAT YOU COULD OF COUNTED FIVE(5) TRUE FRIENDS DURING YOUR LIFETIME!!!!!!
2007-01-29 12:04:38 · answer #8 · answered by dca2003311@yahoo.com 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋