2007-01-29 03:36:01 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
NO: Whenever there is anything happening in the present that reminds you of the past, stop and excuse yourself. He will get the message that his actions are bad memories that you would like to forget.
If his actions don't stop, STOP THE RELATIONSHIP. This is a person that is a cancer that you need to cut out of your life. If this person is not really the type of person you really want, don't abuse yourself by trying to change him. Break the relationship.
2007-01-29 03:45:19 · answer #1 · answered by whatevit 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It was only a mistake if you know you can't put it behind you. If you have truly forgiven someone for what they've done to you, then you should be able to put it to rest. If it still bothers you, then you need to be honest about it and tell him that you are having a hard time with getting over it. Holding in your hurt feelings will only lead to resentment in the future. Get it out now.
2007-01-29 11:47:37 · answer #2 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know the whole story here, so it is hard to comment. But if he makes you promise to never bring up something that HE did wrong, he probably is a jerk who doesn't want to be held accountable for his actions. He needs to fully make whatever he did up to do and sincerely apoligize for it. How about making him promise to never do it again?
2007-01-29 11:41:51 · answer #3 · answered by tiara919 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't make promises you can't keep. Unless you really feel like you won't ever bring that up again.
2007-01-29 11:39:43 · answer #4 · answered by melimel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes that was a mistake because you know you won't be able to keep that promise
2007-01-29 11:42:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
SAY WHAT YOU MEAN AND MEAN WHAT YOU SAY!!!! A PROMISE IS LIKE A WET BLANKET, IT LEAVES YOU SHIVERING WHEN IT TURNS COLD!!!!!!!!!!
2007-01-29 11:52:43 · answer #6 · answered by dca2003311@yahoo.com 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋