I’ve been with my b/f for two long years.
We had great times and we had bad times.
Lately, we both agreed to end the misery and call it off.
He was OK considering that he treated our relationship as ‘casual’ when I treated it as ‘special’.
I was OK because …. As much as I liked him, I had enough.
After our ‘agreement’, he still e-mails me (more than before), visits and wants to be helpful … in his own terms.
Not to mention he says he is in love with another woman … that he can’t have cause she’s married …but I am amazing in bed and he can’t resist that.
What the hell is going on??
Should I cut his di*k off or use him?
2007-01-29 03:04:10 · 19 answers · asked by Me me me 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Show him the door permanently. Anyone who hurt you and waste your time is not worth giving anymore time to.
Don't use him because you will actually be abusing yourself as he'll be geting what he want.
Move on and save yourself for someone who will treat your relationship as 'special' instead of 'casual'!
2007-01-29 03:35:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call it a day, before you find yourself entangled in a web you cannot get out of. There are obviously still feeling (mutual) and that isnot a good basis to be friends or friends with benefits. Don't use him, because that will not bring you any further and will waste your time as you said that he is in love with this other woman.
he cant blackmail you by being nice and considerate, and saying you are amazing in bed while not wanting any strings attached. And you should be wise enough to see he is using you, wanting to get in your pants while not giving anything back. And preventing you from moving on, while he is obviously looking around.
2007-01-29 03:10:16 · answer #2 · answered by MM 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh just get on with it. Do what you feel you want to do. These things usually end eventually. One or both of you might get hurt but that's love. You'll get over it and it will be a learning experience. Life's too short not to say "yes" as often as possible. The long term consequences are outweighed by the immediate results which stay with you forever as memories. ie. things that happen in your life. If you don't say "yes" you won't have any of those. "Yes is the only country in which there is travel" ee cummings
2007-01-29 03:16:17 · answer #3 · answered by Zebedeesnose 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The only way I know to end relationships is to break contact for a good amount of time, a couple of months at the very least.
Tell him he is annoying you and you just want to move on and can't do it while he is hanging around. You have to be firm with him, you decided together to end the relationship and now you need the space to put yourself back together again and think about your future.
2007-01-29 03:13:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call it off make a clean break from him. You are so much better than that and deserve to be treated with respect, he knows that he can have his cake and eat it with you as everytime he comes round you give in to his compliments. Tell him where he can shove his compiments, go out with your girlfriends get very merry and cop of with lots of guys. Get out there and be single for a while.
2007-01-29 03:18:44 · answer #5 · answered by Laracroft81 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats really crazy and u know what ? even thou it hurts tell him that because he was soooo not amazing in bed u want to get on too with someone else !
he is not in a right mind right now otherwise he would not tell u all this , what does he think he is doing ? more like hurting u
sorry but go on , u deserve much better
all the best
2007-01-29 03:09:55 · answer #6 · answered by athina68 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well a man will only treat you the way YOU let him treat you....He is telling you he is in love with another woman a married one. I honestly don't see why your confused or asking what to do it is so obvious ... let him go. He is using you not the other way around. if you don't respect yourself he or any other man for that matter ever will.
2007-01-29 03:23:50 · answer #7 · answered by tinker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get rid because while hes still around you'll find yourself not being able to start looking for the right person. he sounds like a d*ck to me good ridence to bad rubbish i'd say.
2007-01-29 03:16:09 · answer #8 · answered by dubgirl26 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he's still into you and trying to make you jealous. If you aren't interested then just remain friends. If you still have feelings for him, then go for it. Maybe the break made him realize what he had.
2007-01-29 03:09:17 · answer #9 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Use him if you think you wont get hurt, steer clear if you have any feelings left over. He sounds pretty confused, unles the sex is brill, I'd probably stay away regardless of how you feel towards him
2007-01-29 03:23:07 · answer #10 · answered by keeley 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋