his mom and my dad married a few months back and i first saw him recently.he didint attend the wedding.he is too hot to be my brother.we are getting very closeand i think he have feelings for me too.waht should i do
2007-01-29 02:57:37 · 23 answers · asked by tot 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You should kiss him and he should kiss you too then analyze your feelings . What do you feel after kissing . If you feel good you can sleep one night together .Then analyze your feelings again . If sleeping together makes you happy try different positions . And note which positions have you tried .Choose the best one that makes happy both of you . :D
2007-01-29 03:11:08 · answer #1 · answered by xeibeg 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they're nothing wrong with being close to your new addition to your family,although they're are some things you must keep in mind; by trying to hook up with your new step brother, in my opinion, would be wrong. It would be pointless to me. I am in a similar substitution because my father married my step mom and she has a daughter. Although my step sister is 6 years old what if she was older and looked very attractive to me. I would still have feelings for her but they wouldn't be feelings of lust but it would be feelings of the family version of love. From another persons point of view, they would probably say if the person isn't blood related it's OK. But by saying that what if you two fall in live then you look at the possibility of getting married,but that's not really possible That would be a crazy family. My advise to you is to try to not have deep feelings for your step brother. They isn't any problem with being close, but being in a relationship would be ludicris!
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2007-01-29 03:15:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drop him some hints and see how he feels about you. There is nothing wrong with it your not related in any way except by a piece of paper. It maybe be a lil weird at 1st, epically for your dad and his mom but I would keep it from them for a while cuz they are not going to like it but you have to follow your feelings and just let him know how you feel. Good Luck but I warn you now its going to be a long and bumpy road for the 2 of you.
2007-01-29 03:05:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
to tell you the truth i dont think there;s much wrong about,that, unless you are like 13 or something and he is over age, also what do you think your parents will think and his parents, besides if you do decide to go on with your feelings and emotions are you sure that you want to be with someone that if in the future you two have a fight are going to HAVE to see each other faces, i dont think so, you never know what might happen!!! it might work or might not, but if it doenst are you sure you want to see the new girls he is dating?? think about that and good luck there are a lot of hot *** guys out there!!!
2007-01-29 03:05:30 · answer #4 · answered by yennyfer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let it go, please! Unfortunately your parents have created this mess but you need to leave it right there. Imagine if you follow your desires and it doesn't work out. You would have to see each other and live under the same roof. Having him as a brother is so much better. When you're an adult and live on your own and he does too, then I guess no one can interfere with your plans.
2007-01-29 03:03:42 · answer #5 · answered by VW 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is kind of tricky. You should talk to your mother about how she feels about this. It could cause you some awkward moments....both just being together and if you two break up in the future. You should weigh all of the negatives and positives before you jump into this relationship.
2007-01-29 03:04:14 · answer #6 · answered by swtz69drmz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're not technically related, but still, you should consider it related. You should probably turn your feelings OFF. It will only create an awkward situation for everyone. Think of if you did hook up - then what? There are plenty of hotties out there that aren't married into your family!
2007-01-29 03:06:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a tough situation. Would you mind dating your stepbother? There would be a lot of teasing and joking and problems. If you're willing to sacrifice that, then go ahead. Just be sure he likes you back and find out what you're parents might think.
2007-01-29 03:04:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Weird situation?I guess it's not all that horrible,sense you are not really related,but still not completely right.Before you guys take it any farther,see how your parents feel.If you guys got together and things didn't work out,your gonna have the whole family involved,and I'm sure it will be rather awkward......
2007-01-29 03:03:18 · answer #9 · answered by molliehollie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you aren't blood-related it isn't legally wrong. However think of how a relationship would affect the family equation first. If your father doesn't care, then go for it.
2007-01-29 03:11:59 · answer #10 · answered by In-Sync 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋