It's been 6 yr in to our relationship with out any consern or help when I get ill. For the last yr I've worked very little out side the home but tend to house chores and kids (but I've worked 20 yrs prior to this) Recently I came down with the flu along with my kids then I sprainned my ankle. Insted of getting any help or sympathy I get a pissed off man who stomps around the house because he has to do my jobs (granted he supports the family) But what am I supposed to do I was told to stay off my ankle and it hurts damn it!If I don't mentioned what needs to be done he would lay on the couch the whole day and watch me struggle. After leaving the Hospital I called him to tell him about my ankle and he replied GREAT!!! (sarcasticly) When I asked him to get the kids ready for school he comes back with the reply I really don't have any choice do I. I mean this guy is pissed off because I am down. He got mad and told me to go back to work because of all of this. What is his problem?
2007-01-29 02:33:57 · 3 answers · asked by Tgal 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Unfortunately sounds like you married a jerk who does not give a tinker's da-- for you or your kids . when you get well again you should go see a lawyer and get rid of this inconsiderate jerk and find someone who does not give a rat's behind how much money you are missing because you hurt yourself . Instead that they care that you are okay and that your ankle will be okay . I think this man only cares about your name being on a paycheck and the amount you can contribute to the bank account . Say to hell with it and get yourself and your kids a more calm and peacefull life and get rid of this rat . good luck to you honey.
2007-01-29 03:15:35 · answer #1 · answered by Kate T. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have catered to him and now he has to cater to you and doesn't like it. Marriage is supposed to be equal. He works, you take care of kids that is a full time job in its self. Both live in the house then both should care for house.
2007-02-02 02:24:36 · answer #2 · answered by roxanne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he is incapable of multi-tasking and can't live without your support. He needs to grow up, grow some nuts, and do what it takes to keep the family going. I mean heck that is what you have been doing all this time.
2007-01-29 04:08:39 · answer #3 · answered by finished 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋