My husband spends a lot of time online. He spends all day online because of his work and using the same excuse, all night. What worries me is he spends all most of his free time online,
chats a lot with women, downloads tons of pornography, we barely spand any time together, and we are not even having sex anymore. I've tried to talk to him about it but he is always defensive and tell me to leave him alone. I don't want to loose my marriage, but things have to change. How can I get my husband to stop chatting and seeing porn online?
2007-01-29 01:49:12 · 6 answers · asked by Alejandra 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
join him or at least particpate give hime a BJ while he is online. undress show him the real thing.
2007-01-29 02:21:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Men have always looked at porn, even before the internet came along. The best thing you can do is say it's "OK" with you that he views it. Sit down with him and fondle him while he's looking. I'll guarantee you that you'll get laid within a minute. He wants sex very badly, and if you are right there, it will happen.
2007-01-29 14:07:41 · answer #2 · answered by I'm all yours 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As for the chatting he is cheating mentally on you tell him this
As for the porn
Do as I did.
1.Tell him how it makes you feel
2 .Ask him to include you in viewing porn
If this dosn't work
3. Add your own password and block his perverted ***
Oh and tell him those women he's viewing are not real they are fantasy We all don't sit around with our asses up in the air!!!!
2007-01-29 10:31:30 · answer #3 · answered by Tgal 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Talk and communicate with your husband and let him know how this affects you and makes you feel. I feel he is being unfaithful to you... If he will not stop doing this to you and to your marriage you may want to leave and file for divorce as he is being unfaitful to you and the marriage. It sounds to me that he does not love you anymore and that he wants out of the marriage.
2007-01-29 10:23:48 · answer #4 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you can install NetDog Porn Filter on the computer,that help you to block all porn sites quitely in the background when he's surfing on the internet. http://www.netdogsoft.com
2007-01-30 00:47:54 · answer #5 · answered by beyondhelper 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He's turning to porn because you don't do enough for him. You need to start living up to your end of the bargain.
2007-01-30 10:56:31 · answer #6 · answered by Flyah64 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋