My two best girlfriends are the people I usually hang out with most.But they are so wanting to be the only ones in my close friends circle,that I'm starting to suffocate.If an old friend of mine invites me out,for instance,they wil start complaining that I didn't take them along!They want us to go EVERYWHERE together and seem 2 forget i have a LIFE.They don't have many other friends,but I DO,duh!!!I love them and wanna hang out but I'm a sociable person and cant stand spending 24/7 with 2 people.....What can i do??
2007-01-29 01:43:46 · 4 answers · asked by Demi 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Let them know that they aren't the center of your universe, and that spending time apart can actually be beneficial to your friendship. If they get mad, then they weren't as good of friends as you may think they are.
2007-01-29 01:47:30 · answer #1 · answered by Ammie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to both of your girlfriends and be open and honest about the situation. If they are your true friends, they will understand. Both of your friends are NOT the center of your universe, and you have every right to mingle and hang out with your other friends. Both of them need to go out there and make new friends as well. You do love and care about both of them, just tell them how you really feel. I hope this helps. Good luck.
2007-01-29 11:14:27 · answer #2 · answered by Lady S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not a good sign for friends demanding your undivided attention. They may be sufering from unconscious psychlogical block. You only have to tactfully change it for better for them and for you.
2007-01-29 09:49:45 · answer #3 · answered by Marks 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
speak to them about how u feel, if they're ure best friends, they'll understand... tell them that they need to live their own lives too...
2007-01-29 09:54:59 · answer #4 · answered by pieO 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋