what should i do about a male boss asking me for a kiss?
im not gay and i told him where to go but im not sure if he was kidding with me it didnt feel like a joke he is also the biggest gay i have ever met
2007-01-29 01:15:09 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
If he persists...you need to talk with a lawyer (without the boss knowing)
2007-01-29 01:23:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 0⤋
If he is the boss, who would you report it too? Anyhow in order to be considered sexual harassment it has to be proven that it is an on going issue. Like way more than just once or twice even.
So i suggest you start keeping a journal, keep track of the date, day, time and what happened. For instance you would write down for your first thing in your journal that he asked you to kiss him. Write then how you answered him. Then describe his response or if there was any responsce, just write what you precieved if no words were exchanged in the responses.
Then document how you felt at that time. Continue to document how it effects you during your work day, how it effected you during time off, and how long this all effected you.
Keep it personal and do not show anyone. If it looks like he is going to continue to pursue you, and it was not a joke, but a jesture, well keep records.
If it is on going, and he does not fire you for not accepting his advances, you may find he had sexually harassed others. I would wait and be sure it is sexual harassment before i started asking around the office. Good Luck
2007-01-29 09:44:02 · answer #2 · answered by ishelp4 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have two options:
1) pass it off as a joke in poor taste
2) consider it to be sexual harassment in the workplace and pursue it.
Only you can decide which is the more correct option.
2007-01-29 09:26:45 · answer #3 · answered by unclefrunk 7 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you don't like it and after that, report it. Hes your boss that's unacceptable, what he is doing is called sexual harassment.
2007-01-29 09:26:06 · answer #4 · answered by sweet_treat101 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is sexual harassment and you should not have to tolerate it. Go to human resources and file a complaint.
2007-01-29 11:29:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Report him to your human resources office.
2007-01-29 10:06:51 · answer #6 · answered by happybibottom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree you should report it as sexual harassment...or pass it as a poor tasteless joke...its up to you!
2007-01-29 09:36:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just kiss him
2007-01-29 10:41:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
if he insists, you should report him
2007-01-29 09:29:11 · answer #9 · answered by Kedar 7 · 5⤊ 0⤋