I have actually posted about this friend before as she is (her own family members words) annoying and irritiating. I am almost 58yrs and known her since childhood. From a large group of people they have all dropped her, not easily as she refused to let go, phoning etc. Underneath I know she doesn't mean it and
that's made me not want to hurt her. She is so thick skinned and even spelling out something to her doesn't work, Things she does are just completely alien to my principles as in thinks nothing of taking all she can get from anyone and yet spends, spends on herself. Also how she treats work is unbelievable, always off (she gets paid) sick but can be away on hol. She has always been like that and I've just counted to 10 and the friendship has lasted. Why then now after all these years has it got me to the point that I just can't bear her? My family etc continually tell me to get shot of her but I ignored their advice. Now my decision but she won't let go.
2007-01-29 00:30:55 · 8 answers · asked by Ms Mat Urity 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
you have answered your own question (you have got to the point) where you just can't take anymore, so for you that's enough you have a choice keep on winding yourself up to the point where you totally hate her and say or do something you regret or tell her enough is enough if she won't listen ignore her and I mean totally ignore her, sooner or later she will give up and move on to her next victim it sound cruel but this is about you not her do what is right for you and it seems to me right now she is not good for you so move on and find new friends ones who will appreciate you.
2007-01-29 03:37:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its a hard 1 but if she is making you upset or unhappy you dont want her around, do you? if you have talked to her and explained the way you feel then theres nothing else you can do but not get in touch with her, like answering her calls answering the door to her, eventually she will get the hint, but you should do that only after you have explain her behaviour to her and she is not willing to change xx
2007-01-29 00:40:06 · answer #2 · answered by Kimmy xx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd just stop contacting her, answering her calls, going out with her, and basically drop hints and make sure she knows you're not interested in her friendship anymore.
She'll get the message eventually.
2007-01-29 00:38:33 · answer #3 · answered by dadn33 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find a way to have a blazing row . you will see her true colours then and you won't live to regret your split up . make sure though that you don't lose your temper with her , just let her do all the nasty b****ing .
2007-01-29 00:44:02 · answer #4 · answered by woodchip1960 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well what i would do is that i would see why she is up my nose and why she acting like it but if you don't want her to be your friend then you should ditch her and get a new friend but just in case i would break it to her gently.
2007-01-29 01:25:05 · answer #5 · answered by sxi_15_girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
then blow your nose and blow her off. just do it a little bit at a time or just cut off but give them a reason. have you ever thought they might be friends with you as they think you don't have many?
2007-01-29 00:36:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
you should really stop being her friend now
2007-01-29 02:04:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to tell her so that she can repair her behaviour.. maybe she doesn't know what she is doing...
2007-01-29 00:37:35 · answer #8 · answered by Promise 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋