If someone feels like they arent as good as everyone else of sometimes feels like the people around them dont really like them. is this normal? do a lot of people have these feelings? what can you do about it to make it better?
2007-01-29 00:06:29 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
the problem is that i feel very different from everyone else, ive always just wanted to be the same.
2007-01-29 00:17:31 · update #1
I feel pretty good about myself, and a lot of people don't like me!! Do you like you?? I think you do, and there are a lot of people in the world that like you too!!! You just have to realize who they are, and don't count the ones who don't. They don't matter anyway.
If you are different from everybody else, you are very special. You should know that most of everybody else suck!! You, however, are your own person and have chosen not to suck. That is highly commendable!! If they don't like you, it's because you are better than them!!
BTW, I like you!
2007-01-29 00:18:34 · answer #1 · answered by stringer_G 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Feel how fortunate that we were born as humans, and that we're one of a kind in this solar system, and probably most of the galaxy. If that doesn't work, think how fortunate you've been to live, without war, or disease, or deformity, etc. If that doesn't work, then understand that you have a mind, with logic, reasoning, and are constantly learning.. Consider how so many people are in worse situations than yourself.. even if you were in the worst situation of human kind, consider how more fortunate you are than any animal or insect is...
Once you realize the great fortune we as humans have, you'll want to live differently.. When you see with a universal view, your self esteem will likewise follow.
2007-01-29 08:15:45 · answer #2 · answered by Tom 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
it's normal dear...as you are not the people around you, so, you woon't know what they really think about you.to solve the problem, you need to join them and be more proactive , try to chat with them as they might only feel that you ignored them too. therefore, you can try to start a conversation with them and see how it's works out.
2007-01-29 08:21:13 · answer #3 · answered by ~~simply me~~ 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Cognitive Behaviour Therapy.
Incidentally, MY therapist told me: "volunteer and you'll feel better when you achieve stuff". Didn't work tho.
(and yes, a lot of people have these feelings)
2007-01-29 08:21:31 · answer #4 · answered by ClarissaWAM 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can bring up your self-esteem by telling yourself good things about yourself. Also don think about the negative things. Think Positive!
2007-01-29 08:10:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Feeling, what do not love you? So I have understood? Happens. It is just necessary to hope for the best always. And to be the best!
2007-01-29 08:25:53 · answer #6 · answered by Gunay A 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Remind yourself that there is someone out there 100 times worse off than you are, and hold your head up!
2007-01-29 08:15:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋