a few years ago, my ex and i broke up,he asked me to move out he moved another women in...right after i left..we were haveing money problems my ex was worried about lossing the house i got sick couldnt work, every thing was so crazy. after a while he told me he was sorry and had mad a great mistake..he tells me he loves me and wil aways will....he say god will punish him for what has happen between us. he said i am the love of his life aways to the day he die.
2007-01-28 23:18:45 · 17 answers · asked by june c 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
he couldn't stick with you when your were sick and needed him the most???? What more do I have to say.....if you want to be a doormat your whole life then by all means, stay with this guy......If you feel you are worth something and want to have a loving relationship with a real man, then leave and find someone that cares about you and doesn't want anything from you but your love and support;)
2007-01-28 23:24:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take it sloooooow. Don't believe his words. See what he DOES. He sounds imature and untrustable. I would not wrap my life up in this guy. If you want to date him, go ahead, but don't pack up and move in with him or let him move in with you until you've had a nice, normal, communicative, problem-solving relationship for 18 months or so. I wouldn't trust him an inch. Be careful and use your head, not your emotions. You are right to question this. Best of luck.
2007-01-28 23:23:36 · answer #2 · answered by whereRyou? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well it sounds like he doesn't want you back just for sex. It sounds like he wants you back cause he loves you, and also you dont want himback just for sex because ytou say you love him too. Go back to each other if you love one another and try make it work - if you don't love him then I wouldn't go back to him either for a relationship or just for sex because his feelings are obviously. I would think sex is fine between exes only if both parties don't have love-feelings involved, otherwise it gets complicated.
If you love one another though, go for it - make a try.
2007-01-28 23:23:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It shouldn't be about Money, Sex or convience. It has to be about The Heart. If your's is tickin'. and his is thumpin'. You should make it final. But don't put the whole thing on lust or Money. You're wasting a Beautiful Heart on something that you shouldn't.
2007-01-28 23:26:39 · answer #4 · answered by Goggles 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes
2007-01-28 23:21:40 · answer #5 · answered by BTH L 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
why not..can you think of more reasons not to than to, just be careful its a hard position your putting your self into...if things get tough again is he going to bail on you again, if so sex is fine but try not to get emotionally reattached. if you fill he really has learned his lesson than go for it, but to be on the safe side keep your guard up for awhile. it takes alot of trust on your part to go back.
or you can just say ****-it and try to forget him and move on.
good luck to you in what ever you decide
2007-01-28 23:35:24 · answer #6 · answered by ladykitcha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can go there only to enjoy , but keep it in your mind that he is not going to be your well wisher in future also , reason is the that house , so give a thought before re-entering or allow him to sleep with you .
2007-01-28 23:32:04 · answer #7 · answered by your noon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes and next year you will be back on Yahoo Answers asking the very same question. Move on.
2007-01-28 23:28:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anthony F 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Do you trust him.Do you want to get back together with him.Trust is everything in a relationship without trust you have nothing.It is a bad idea to get with him just for sex.,
2007-01-28 23:24:13 · answer #9 · answered by Maureen B 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
forgetting the previous...answer the question whether you the two decide to start something or no longer? you the two are exes with one yet another. you're the two taking achieveable. you got here mutually, so there is something there. premarital intercourse isnt love, that's a crutch or speedy fix for something deeper that hasnt been waiting to be resolved. i wish you and he decide what you fairly want from one yet another. stable luck
2016-11-28 02:35:08 · answer #10 · answered by kull 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋