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2007-01-28 23:16:40 · 15 answers · asked by gemma_paterson1483 1 in Health Men's Health

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My husband used to suffer with this and was told it was because he worried about it too much we found sex toys such as **** rings help alot and also put more time into foreplay to make sex last longer x

2007-01-30 04:31:57 · answer #1 · answered by sabrina8589 2 · 0 0

Start doing what you do when you want to take a sh*t.

seriously- push hard, and there`s no chance you`ll ejaculate while doing this. But you can`t last too long without exercising.
Also it helps to suddenly start thinking something else, when you feel you are reaching the end

2007-01-29 01:30:15 · answer #2 · answered by gordan p 2 · 0 1

start a walk a thon for it..you know like a walk for a cure kind of thing..double of the condoms..is one..have your partner jerk it before sex is another..well there is the squeeze teck..and then he can learn to build him self up to it..by jerking and stopping just before ejaculation..

2007-01-29 01:43:27 · answer #3 · answered by Kingofreportedabuse 3 · 1 0

I'm try the solution from http://www.treatment-premature-ejaculation.com

2007-02-01 02:22:49 · answer #4 · answered by Afriend 2 · 0 0

Put a bottle cap

2007-01-30 21:52:13 · answer #5 · answered by Lancelot 3 · 0 0

masturbation

the more a man practices solo-sex, the more control he might have on his ejaculation process

2007-01-30 18:36:15 · answer #6 · answered by quilm 3 · 0 0

it could be stress related so make him feel relaxed.thinking of something as a turn off works for some.increase the foreplay so it isnt just about the sex.

2007-01-29 03:49:46 · answer #7 · answered by Mr Cynical 5 · 0 0

There are different approaches, read my other posts:

http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AoM04AdnyQXVJU1RgkFLm13sy6IX?qid=20070119023148AAvk0QD&show=7#profile-info-AA11377067

http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AuSaoWmov0kQAeiULkygOz3sy6IX?qid=20070123074242AA7QBHR&show=7#profile-info-eb89d8b964b33bf5d9e9d96194b8b002aa

Best wishes

2007-01-29 01:33:27 · answer #8 · answered by ♥zene purrs♥ 6 · 0 0

You can try Last Longer.
Last Longer is
-Non-hormonal herbal therapy.
-Acts locally on the sex organs.
-Regulates process of ejaculation.
-Acts through neuro-endocrine pathway.
-Acts on the high centers of emotion in the brain.
and you can try
To learn ejaculatory control:

* Don't use drugs or alcohol. They're distracting and they interfere with the self-awareness crucial to learning ejaculatory control.
* Appreciate whole-body sensuality. Men often think sex happens only in the penis and only during intercourse. That view is a one-way ticket to uncontrolled ejaculation (not to mention erection problems, and women with those proverbial headaches). The best sex involves head-to-toe arousal. Men learning how to approach -- but not arrive at -- their point of no return, need to appreciate whole-body sensuality, the pleasure potential in every square inch of the body. Whole-body sensuality releases tension. Tense bodies that have no other outlet often find release through involuntary ejaculation. But as you learn to appreciate sensual pleasure from head to toe, whole-body arousal takes the pressure off your penis, and you last longer.
* Whole-body sensuality means relaxation, but the "relaxation" involved in great sex is not the kind that includes an easy chair, a six pack, and Monday Night Football. It's the kind you feel after a hot bath or a good massage. In fact, bathing or showering together before lovemaking can help men relax and appreciate whole-body sensuality -- and last longer.
* Breathe deeply. One very easy way to stay relaxed while making love is to breathe deeply. The body has a natural tendency to breathe deeply during sex. But many men fight it. They think they should stay in control by not breathing deeply and making the little love-moan sounds that go along with it. But when men work to control their breathing, they often sacrifice ejaculatory control. Try breathing deeply. Let your breath go. Many men are amazed how much this one little change improves their ejaculatory control.
* Start with masturbation with a dry hand. By varying how you caress your penis, you can learn to stay highly aroused for quite a while without coming. When you feel yourself approaching your point of no return, simply back off a bit, strokestroke yourself more gently or not at all, and stay aroused without ejaculating. Then as you feel yourself getting a little distance from your point of no return, return to more vigorous self-stimulation. Repeat this several times over several sessions. Approach your point of no return, then back off. For most men, it doesn't take long to develop good ejaculatory control while alone.
Then move on to masturbation with a lubricated hand. Use saliva, vegetable oil, or a commercial sexual lubricant. For most people, lubricants increase the sensual intensity of erotic fondling. Follow the same program: Masturbate until you approach your point of no return, then back off. Repeat this several times over several sessions.
* Once you have good control during masturbation, and appreciate whole-body sensuality, and feel comfortable breathing deeply during lovemaking, then you're ready for the couples program -- if you're in a couple. The couple approach is called the "Stop-Start Technique." First, arrange "stop" and "start" signals with your lover, for example, a light pinch or tap, or a tug on an ear.
Then, your lover strokes your penis by hand as you lie still. When you approach your point of no return, give the "stop" signal. Your lover immediately stops stroking you and simply holds your penis gently, as you continue to breathe deeply and pays close attention to the sensations you're feeling. When you no longer feels close to ejaculation, gives the "start" signal, and your lover begins stroking you again. How many stops and starts should you do? A half-dozen over a 15-minute period works well for most couples. Do what feels comfortable for you.

With stop-start, the focus is on the man. He's the one learning the new skill. But don't forget the woman's sensual needs. As part of each practice session, she might guide your hand over her to show you what she likes.

2007-01-29 06:03:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

Stop being a WAN? ER!!!

2007-01-29 05:47:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

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