My boyfriend is working in military. I hate that, because its dangerous. His term of military will expire this year. But my boyfriend said I want to keep working.
I want to say that I want you to quit the job. but I cant, because he will hate me because he will think that I dont understand about him.
and now we are long-distance love. so, I cant tell him face to face.
Will a man dislike that a girlfriend say ' I want you to quit the job' ?
2007-01-28 23:09:50 · 4 answers · asked by superchick 1 in Business & Finance ➔ Careers & Employment
He is working for a good cause plus he likes what he is doing and that is a big plus, since you are not yet married and there are a few things you dont like about the relationship stop punishing yourself and move on, that will make you happy also.
2007-01-28 23:19:16 · answer #1 · answered by jewbrod 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if thats his passion, u cant stop him. i will hate it even if my bf tells me that. if his life revolves around you to give up his dream, then y not. my ex used to be a commercial diver and in his line, lotsa ppl get killed too coz its heavy manual work. but i dun believe in telling a person how to lead their lives especially when they love their job. maybe u cld try planning with him a long term future plan like when he shd maybe leave the military (once u guys have good enough savings??) and maybe venture in a business together. dont just tell him dont n not to. give him at least good suggestions and input.
2007-01-29 07:21:56 · answer #2 · answered by Wish 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him when you are both togather and you can explain the reasons why. He will not hate you.
2007-01-29 07:19:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
let him quit on his own. that way he can't say you stopped him from doing what he wanted to do.
2007-01-29 07:21:43 · answer #4 · answered by monreda 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋