Okay, so you would never cheat on your partner and have been in a very loving relationship for a very long time. But you lust after another man, even though you know you really wouldn't want to be with that other man, and are very happy in your relationship, and most certainly do not want it to end, and would never ever cheat.
2007-01-28 23:05:33 · 26 answers · asked by Wafflebox 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i think it means your human, lol if you have no intention of leaving or cheating on your current partner then there really isnt anything to worry about, its when you start seeing it as a posssibility that things are taking a turn for the worse.
maybe you feel something is sexually lacking in your current relationship, what does this man you lust after have which you physically crave? if you can work that out maybe thats what you want, not the man, maybe you want the excitement of a clandestine love affair, but maybe you could introduce a little of that excitement into your current relationship, have a bit of game playing, do something different together. your relationship probably isnt lacking anything but the more you push this away to the back of your mind the more likely it is to come back with avengance, address it now and deal with it whilst its a harmless thought.
Good luck!
2007-01-28 23:16:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
Attraction based solely on looks is a natural as breathing. Every person sees people that they are attracted to hundreds of times a day. Even lusting after someone or fantasizing about someone is normal and nothing to worry about. Some people find having an active imagination or fantasy life simply enhances their relationship. You are fine and doing well for yourself to not ruin your relationship.
2007-01-28 23:14:15 · answer #2 · answered by fly guy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think its just human nature and you have to deal with it the best way you can.. not act on it in anyway and hopefully after a while it will pass. We're all allowed to appreciate other people and all turn our heads at a good looking person.. but i know i totally love and appreciate my boyfriend and wouldnt stray so no harm done. We're allowed to window shop as the say. As long as know one gets hurt or upset by it.
2007-01-28 23:14:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
it all right to look at a never man but dont touch and it is all
where you put your head me my self i love my man and
and he will be the only that will get this all dont get me wrong
i have cheat be for but now i am oldder so i got wiser and
strong i may look at a never man if he look find to me
but that all i will do if i had to cheat we dont need to be together
but when i did cheat i was not with the same person
sorry i am tried i been on the compter a long time to day
2007-01-28 23:33:27 · answer #4 · answered by april.simon s 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hi! it depends on the guy your dating and the one you lust other..
i would never cheat but maybe you should ask for a break between you and your boyfriend,and see what you have with this other guy.
b/c these feelings might end up to something more then your frist.. i kinda went through with what you are going through..and i took a break and fell in love with this guy i never knew had so much going for him..and i've never been happier so my guess is juss see what happens..and let it go from there...
gd luck:)
-Chelsea-
2007-01-28 23:13:03 · answer #5 · answered by *Chelsea* 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your only Human, it doesnt mean you dont love your partner any less,
There is nothing abnormal about been physically attracted to another man/woman so I wouldnt worry about it, be strong and dont give into the urge if you dont want to lose your loving relationship.
2007-01-28 23:11:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Confused.com?
Seriously, it's normal behaviour. As long as it stops at the lusting then it's healthly and keeps your own relationship healthy unless of course there are problems......
2007-01-28 23:11:31 · answer #7 · answered by Steve D 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I usually get infatuated with a bloke if I dream about them. Even if they are really really unattractive. Can't be helped - just a phase that will pass.
2007-01-28 23:18:01 · answer #8 · answered by Rachael H 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Erotic dreaming,
All pumping and steaming,
Such startling reactions
Denied satisfaction,
She awakes in surprise,
Confused by her eyes,
Returns then to sleep,
For more pleasure to reap,
Hot actions ongoing,
Ever building,
Never slowing,
The pace increasing,
Never ceasing,
Fulfilling feelings,
And spinning ceilings,
Astounding movement,
Defining moment,
Her loins gripping,
But the dream is slipping,
With lust overflowing,
The dream is going,
The dream is going,
The dream is...
Real???
2007-01-28 23:24:20 · answer #9 · answered by ladysorrow 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Your on the first rung of a ladder and if you act on it you will lose all round and it will end up in tears but then you new that all ready did ant you. bad girl smacked legs and don't let me catch you at it again do you hear me girl.
2007-01-28 23:20:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋