hello again, damn do i have a lot of problems with her, this girl i liked that i conffesed to, but it's been over a month ago, all of a sudden she starts acting wierd around me, it all started last week when we were texting, all i said was i had chiken for dinner, she tells me i might look like a chicken when i go to school tommorow, so i tell her that's impossible. but then she says that i might cut my hair into a style like the boys (spiked), i was shocked and told her "why'd i do that? i'm not a boy..." then she tells me "well because your, you know, you told me..." so i knew she was talking about my feelings for her, then i asked how she still remembered, she replied "how can i forget that? you were really wierd, are you still like that?" and so on and so on. and now, when i text her, her replies are really short and when i go near her she's like, i don't know wierd she ain't as happy seeing me anymore, please help i don't understand her, what's wrong...
2007-01-28 22:56:20 · 9 answers · asked by Rai W 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
She's not interested in you that way and is uncomfortable knowing that you have these feelings.
2007-01-28 23:37:55 · answer #1 · answered by unclefrunk 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The absolute best thing you can do is stay away from her. She is obviously either completely uninterested, or at the very least uncorfortable around you. Back off completely. Stop sending her text messages, stop hanging around her. She is trying ot give you a hint that she doesn not want your comapny right now. Go out and make some new friends, possible even start dating someone if you have a Gay/Straight Allieance in your high school, or in the community, start going to that. But whatever you do, just back off this girl.
If it turns out she was not at all interested in you, you'll be doing both of you a favor by not constantly trying to send her text messages that she doesnt answer. If she WAS interested, she'll come to you after you stop trying so hard.
2007-01-28 23:56:25 · answer #2 · answered by Beth B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So ... you told this girl that you liked her, but you haven't told us whether or not she reciprocated your feelings! There is some reason that she's become uncomfortable with the whole situation. Maybe she's making a joke about your sexuality -- for example, the insensitve remark about the chicken hair -- because she's afraid that she's been leading you on about her feelings. The best thing that you can do is talk to her about it. Find out from what the problem is. In reality, none of us can tell you anyway. You need to let her know that you don't want your preference and feelings to get in the way of your friendship.
2007-01-28 23:09:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-28 03:34:12 · answer #4 · answered by gazdecki 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She was freaked out by your honesty in regards to your previous feelings for her.
You need to let her go.
Either she will get her shi& together or she won't but you need to keep yourself out of harms way.
I'm sorry but she is no longer your friend.
2007-01-29 06:21:22 · answer #5 · answered by octopussy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe she is getting tired of you and she cant really say it to you directly so she tries to get you angry somehow so that you can break up with her.......its only from my opinion...just try asking her....
2007-01-28 23:01:59 · answer #6 · answered by xpsihateyou 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's probably not gay, she may feel uncomfortable around you.
That's her choice. RESPECT it.
2007-01-28 23:53:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she is not interested in you.
2007-01-28 23:02:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
it;s called puppy love
2007-01-28 23:00:46 · answer #9 · answered by rottentothecore 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋