Is losing your virginity for a girl, really painful? My girlfriend & i both lost our virginity to each other last night. She found it REALLY painful, and I found penetrating really awkward, in the missionary position, it seemed an awkward angle! Does this make sense to anyone cos im quite worried!
2007-01-28 22:36:42 · 7 answers · asked by g s 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
Isnt every one worried after their first time.. After a few trys it will be okay and she may be in a little pain because you might be quite 'big' my first guy and me took about 6 times before it stopped 'hurting' me because he was soo 'big.' i dont think you have any thing to worry about!!
2007-01-28 22:41:41 · answer #1 · answered by ♥..::Amy::..♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You were probably both a bit nervous and that may have resulted in her being not stimulated enough. Next time spend a bit more time getting her horny and use a lubricant. That will help and it can be a bit of fun to use. Penetration can be difficult if she is a bit tense and not properly stimulated. Try maybe with her on top or lay her on a level surface with you standing or kneeling. But definately spend more time with foreplay to try and make her more comfortable and aroused. Good luck and good on you for worrying about her ;-)
2007-01-29 06:45:46 · answer #2 · answered by Big red 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
everyone is different. you just need to get used to it a couple more times and after that it'll be fun for the both of you. it kinda hurt the first few times i had sex but it just takes some getting used to. by the way that is so sweet you lost your virginities to each other :)
2007-01-29 09:14:15 · answer #3 · answered by *princess ashley* 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try her on her knees, like crawling and you behind her in doggy style. She will be alot more open and you will find it easier to go in. Try using lubrication so she is very wet and it will be comfortable. Make sure you have lots of foreplay so you are both relaxed. Good luck!
2007-01-29 06:41:46 · answer #4 · answered by BrutalNerd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try an upward position next time with you sitting on top ..this way you can stimulate at your own pace! Have fun Babe!
2007-01-29 08:45:51 · answer #5 · answered by MINH H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey this is very special question you should talk this with a close friend.
2007-01-29 06:41:44 · answer #6 · answered by xeibeg 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no no.. dont worry.. at first it is normal to have some problems as you said.. but do this more times.. and it will be awsome.. believe me brother.... good luck:)
2007-01-29 06:42:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋