My ex-housemate n I were best of friend until her mom got cancer and I help her out. I got my Bf to help her by driving her n her mom to places. This is when she hit on my Bf, back stabbing me and even pretending to her mom that he is her Bf. Before her mom pass away, She told me to look out for her. My bf warned me about her as we stayed in the same roof! My Bf and me broke off already and now my this Gf will pretend nothing happen even we both knew what had happen as i never did confronted her. Move out since and she will call to catch up. Been avoiding her but she will call like nothing happen? How do i handle her??
2007-01-28 21:23:36 · 10 answers · asked by mamamia 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I did chg all my hp(twice) n add n everything but we did have lots of mutual friends n she will manage to get hold of my nos.
How I Know she hit on him??Well, apart fr my ex telling me, I myself can't belief it at 1st n later tro' months of observing n found out myself, i even pay for e phone bill fr home she made to my ex(as my ex was avoiding her calls n she finds all ways to call him) Usually i didn't bother to check the date just e nos to pay our shared phone bill till e incidents so i check e date i am not in town n there calls make to my ex. Its been 2 or 3 years since but she just don't get it that i don't want to be reminding of the bad times. Just leave me alone!! But out of the blues there is this call this new year wishing me n all n it just spoilt my day!!
2007-01-30 16:44:40 · update #1
move on with your life without her..... dont do anything BAD to her. pray for her and god will do the rest a.k.a. kharma!!!
2007-01-28 21:38:00 · answer #1 · answered by go~ness! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well... I think that you should confront her. You should tell her what you heard and see what she has to say. On one hand she may have done this and this is not right. But on the other, your ex boyfriend may have got the wrong idea and she could have come off as hitting on him when she was just looking for some support in her life during the hard time she was going through. I don't know all the details but I think that you have to ask for what happened and then from there decide if this is a real issue. If she really did hit on him, then she as no excuse to have backstabbed you, but make sure you know for sure. If you can't prove it, then you have to decide if you value her enough to trust her. Good luck!
2007-01-28 21:43:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if I were in your shoes, I will change my contact number to avoid her. I feel that if a friend can betray you in such a way, there is no point for you to carry on the friendship. Once you gradually keep away from her, I think she would get the hint
2007-01-28 22:03:32 · answer #3 · answered by Clown & Joker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to come clean with her - confront her instead of avoiding her - because she is taking you for granted. Tell her that you are upset with her. If she s your friend, she would apologize for what she did. But, if she puts the blame on you instead, just find another friend. She is clearly backstabbing you and does not worth your friendship.
2007-01-28 21:43:50 · answer #4 · answered by ranselbiru 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't understand here, how you know she had back stabbing you? How you know she pretending th her mom that he is her bf? Even she did so, could she have a reason? Maybe just to please her mom before she left? In life, we don't see thing on one angle, if not, you will miss out alot of things.
2007-01-28 21:40:38 · answer #5 · answered by Tan D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should confront her first.. Ask her why is she ruining your life..? Why is she seeking your attention this way.. Why is she stealing your boyfriend.. Slap her if her answer is too ugly for you.. Yell at her also...
Just remember before you do anything rash or ugly.. Confront her first. Ask her anything. After analysing her answer, rethink your decision and actions..
2007-01-28 22:53:05 · answer #6 · answered by -K3llY- 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ignore the episode . afterall , information superhighway frienships dont very last or in the experience that they very last , they arent as sound as head to head friendships . per chance she needs a marriageable guy , and also you arent , or vice versa . forgive the girl and foregt . keep on along with your life in a real life relationship.
2016-10-16 06:10:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her about it...if need be...yell at her!dayummn...she sounds insane!!!just ignore her if you have to.but you have to ask your self if she makes a difference n yo lyf...if yes...think again about it twice b4 you make a move.....
all the best
2007-01-28 21:39:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Beat her azs
2007-01-28 21:29:41 · answer #9 · answered by TEXASMALE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
confront her, ask her and tell her everything.
2007-01-28 21:37:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋