.......in the past 2 years. I' m 4 weeks pregnant now. If my sister comes to know it will be hell to pay. There will be a messy divorce. They are very rich and have one child. Should I abort?...We made a mistake. I hate myself for doing this to my sis. Can you help me decide about the baby please? I'm not married. I would like to marry him or stay unmarried for ever. I am in a huge mess right now.
2007-01-28 21:16:11 · 16 answers · asked by Nightrider 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Don't kid yourself, he was not making love to you, he got laid and by the ONE MAN you should have never touched...
I am sorry you are pregnant now. I don't know what the right answer is. If you're going to get an abortion, have him pay for it since he has the money. Your sister, not to mention you parents will probably never forgive you. You say you regret it but you did it for two years?
Pray for forgiveness child, there is nothing else to get you through this. If you're going to tell her, just be totally honest. I feel so bad for her that you did this to her, but if you do decide to tell her, at least she can get rid of the man who hurts her...what's to say he won't do it to her again in the future? Whether you have the baby or not, prepare for your sister to disown you...
2007-01-29 10:45:22 · answer #1 · answered by Sweet Face 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should not abort this baby.... You need to have the baby and if you cannot handle raising it put it up for adoption. You did not make a mistake... You both chose to do this with each other and to the marriage... The baby definitley is not a mistake... Look you chose to spread your legs so getting pregnant is the outcome of your decision hon now you need to live with what happened and move on BUT abortion is not the answer here. You or her husband will have to tell your sister as honesty is the best policy here!
2007-01-29 06:02:51 · answer #2 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Young Lady I bet you are a huge mess. Lets see where to start. Your pregnant, by a man thats a cheat to begin with. To make things worse you cheated with a your sisters husband.
You werent thinking about her and her child when you were laying in his cheating arms. Now to hide what youve done your thinking of killing an unborn child hoping it will ease your pain.
Why you would have an affair with your sisters husband I have no clue.
Two things might happen here. When your sister finds out and she will, the cheating husband is going to throw you to the curb and call you the whore that you are and they save their marriage. Or your sister is going to divorce him and let you have the cheating *** hole and never speak to you again. Plus shes going to be the rich one cause shes going to get everything and hes going to still pay for his child . I hope your ready to support a cheating *** hole because thats what youve set yourself up for and also when your not with him how do you know he wont be cheating with your sister.
2007-01-29 05:36:29 · answer #3 · answered by lovie12346 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
First of all--shame on you. Go to this jerk that has been using you and tell him you are pregnant. Then go to your sister and come clean.Does she deserve this piece of crap that thinks so little of her that he pokes her sister.You claim that you made a mistake?For two years?Grow up! The only mistake that bothers you is that you got caught.The guy cares nothing for you or your sister.As for an abortion-that is up to you to decide.Think of what is best for someone else for a change.You are a selfish little B1tch and I hope the pain you have caused yourself and others teaches you something.
2007-01-29 17:59:04 · answer #4 · answered by Miz Val 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Ahhh a lethal combination, married older mam, younger sister in law, infatuation, lust, youth....umm....you are in a mess, I sit on the fence on abortion, I reckon we have too many people as it is and pointless bringing one into the world that's not wanted. On the other hand, I had daughters that probably should have had abortions and didn't and as a result I have some beautiful grandkids (whom I love dearly). Your choice but somehow I still think the $hit will hit the fan for you!
2007-01-29 05:23:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
No ****,Maybe you can become one of his concubines.You'll just have to talk it over with your sister first.After all,it sounds like he has enough money to look after both of you.Seriously,you all need to sit down and get it all out in the open.A couple of days of misery is better than a lifetime of pain and regret.
2007-01-29 05:25:24 · answer #6 · answered by Eat My Shorts 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
This does not seem to be a real situation.....but if it is, shame on you, yes, have an abortion or put the baby up for adoption, and whatever you do, don't let your sister know about it....he is a jerk, but you are bigger one, not only did you know he was a married man, but who he was married to. Don't hurt your sister anymore than you already have.
2007-01-29 05:25:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
hmmm....thats a hard one....i feel for u....im not really for abortion but it is a choice that u have to consider in this matter....is there any way u could make the baby seem like its not his....say u had a one night fling....the guy is gone and u dont want him in ur life anymore....um....adoption if u could hid that ur pregnant for that long....then of course there is the truth.....idk if u could live a lie for the rest of ur life.....does he know??? um...im sorry if this isnt much help hun...if u need someone to talk to u can messege me...hope everything works out...he must b one h*ll of a guy...
2007-01-29 05:27:25 · answer #8 · answered by dana <3 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
U above all s*** and him abve all idiots ur sister doesnt need people like u ..u must both die to have a better world
SHAME ON YOU
2007-01-29 05:33:03 · answer #9 · answered by broderm2k 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He's a cheating SOB. think of what a great father he would be to your child!!!
If you can't raise him yourself, give him up for adoption.
but don't count on this selfish punk to help you.
2007-01-29 05:21:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋