Is this unfair?I heard that more than 50% of women have had same sex....?

Question

I've heard that as many as 50% of women will have some sort of lesbian sexual experience in their lives, yet only 1-2% claim to be lesbians. If a guy has a sexual experience with another guy, he's considered gay - no questions asked. And if he tries to claim otherwise, he'll be laughed at. However many females have gay or bi-sexual experiences during their lives and yet still claim to be straight. From the perspective of gay men, they can pretty much do anything. However, they are already looked down upon by many in society,so it may just be a matter of not having as much social perception to lose in the first place. It also reflects biology to a certain extent. Men are generally either gay or completely heterosexual, with no attractions toward any other guys. Females, however, whether lesbian or heterosexual, many times exhibit many bi-sexual qualities, even when they are not trying to be sexual at all.

Isnt this unfair.Coz i feel guys are very much restricted than girls sexually

Well i forgot to mention i'm a straight guy but looking at the society i felt it is unfair.
Yes i agree with u deyleylah.Maybe its because we straight men like to see lesbian Well i forgot to mention i'm a straight guy but looking at the society i felt it is unfair.
Yes i agree with u deyleylah.Maybe its because we straight men like to see lesbian scenes




alot.(I prefer them more than man woman)So ya i think we straight guys have to be responsible for a certain extent coz we encurage females to do so.But if they really dont like to do with womenin porn movis they can refuse.(Remember there are few pornstars who refuse to act in women on women scenes)

Maybe guys are not into bi stuff much because majority of straight women dont like gay guys.So there's no demand for bi guys generally in women unlike mens demand for lesbians.

Answer 1

Society puts many pressure on men (especially American society) to be macho. It's almost like every straight man is expected to be ultra manly so no one will think they are gay. I think it is an underlying obsession with homosexuality (and how not to be viewed that way). I think men should be able to be themselves and be as effeminate or masculine as they feel is right for them. But unfortunately society doesn't want to allow this. This leads into what you are saying about sexual acts themselves...society thinks it's ok for women to have same-sex experiences cos society doesn't see lesbians as "real". Women who have flings with women are seen as going thru a phase. And straight men sometimes find it hot. But for a guy to have a gay experience is a big deal. It's totally unfair. I guess in the end most people who have experiences with men, prefer them :P

Answer 2

Look at normal heterosexual relationships ... a woman who has had several partners is a whore, a man who has had the same number of partners is a God. Its considered proper that a woman goes along with anything to give the man pleasure, while her own needs are so often ignored.

It the "straight man's" world. Even though it seems that women are less restricted in this circumstance, its only because the straight man says that its okay. Most guys have bisexual/lesbian fantasies ... and for a woman to participate in that falls into the "proper for a woman to do anything to give the man pleasure",whether she enjoys it is irrelevant. Its only okay that she does it because the "straight man" views it as acceptable.

And the reason that the "straight man" insists that men are either straight or gay is because he doesn't want to confront his own bisexual tendencies. The reason I say that is because all people have thoughts or fantasies about a member of the same sex. "Straight men" realize this, and they're scared by it ... because it might weaken their masculinity. That's why they are so quick to make fun of other gay men and degrade them ... they're trying to escape their own insecurities.

I now realize that this is kind of a rant but hope it answers your questions.

Answer 3

i do not imagine that that's an ungainly diagnosis, via the undeniable fact that is a theory, depending on the technology that formed the end. women human beings by technique of nature, mentally create the sexual surroundings, fantasy and mind's eye are extra widespread in women human beings because of this. adult males are actual by technique of nature, and easily want seen stimulation for arousal and minimum contact for finished arousal. notwithstanding that's technology~ in my opinion, i imagine that sex is someone procedure and as Pavlov, that's all in what you practice your self into doing~operating example the multi~orgasmic woman, has to educate herself to be that way, it isn't by technique of layout. that is what we as persons practice our-self into believing, what we practice our psyche into believing is truth of wide wakeful nature.

Answer 4

many many many guys have had same sex experiences too particularly in thier younger days.. they just lie about it more often LOL

I dont feel restricted.. I do what I wanna do when I wanna do it, I prefer girls usually.. but I'm bi.. so? whos restricting me

Answer 5

So what? This is the ONE thing women get more of than guys? Think we deserve it,all things considered,lol

Answer 6

And a label means so much to you because?

You know what you like, pursue that with (care and) no consideration for what others think or say.

Answer 7

Dude..define yourself.

Forget about what people think unless you're truly interested in their opinon.

People can be unfair...but you can have fun.

Answer 8

r u wanting t bum a man or summet u is gay as hell

if we dint have loads of lemons doin it then we wunt av lots of great lesbian porn movies would we.

Answer 9

they got lucky and you got labeled > and it is unfair but that's life.

Answer 10

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