we have great sex often. i have many fantasies that i tell my wife about and we act them out etc and enjoy them but when i ask her what turns her o or what her fantasies are she says .....umm i dont really have any. is this possible for a women not to fantasize about having sex?
2007-01-28 20:42:42 · 11 answers · asked by sol h 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
When I was in my early to mid 30's, believe me, getting through the day ALIVE was all I would dream off. Through kids, a job, the house, I felt totally overwhelmed alot of times, and the last thing I would think about was sex and fantasy's. Give her a chance....life can be difficult sometimes!!!!
2007-01-29 01:48:19 · answer #1 · answered by K.W. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everybody does, only she feels too shy to tell you and may also feel embarrass discussing it.
It is always easier for men to talk but women ( esp conservatives) may never discuss such subject.
Since she enjoys everything with you and not complaint, you must be doing all the right things.
Keep going with your fantasies and who knows, one fine day she will confide in you.
Good Luck
2007-01-29 05:05:44 · answer #2 · answered by sonisunny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes , it is very possible that a person may not have sexual fantasies, especially if she is happy with her partner, I wouldn't think that would be an anomaly.
2007-01-29 05:00:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she does
she is just scared to tell you, afraid you will freak out, she prolly has her favborites that she wears her lil; fingers down to nubs fingering herself, I have never met a woman that dont have fantasies.
of course, there will be some that read this and post the "ohh I don't ever have fantasies" but rest assured, if they know of sex, they use the largest sex organ they have, their minds, they think them.
Horse spit, she dreams.................... and you prolly don't really want to know about what.
2007-01-29 04:50:31 · answer #4 · answered by countryboy1959 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe YOU are her fantasy.
she might not think a lot about sex except imagining sex with you, or sex in general, or she's not very imaginative...
i don't really have any sexual fantasies. i like sex with my boyfriend, so i guess i just fantasize about that... maybe i'm not very imaginative either!
2007-01-29 05:01:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you guys are more expressive in the physical sence, however that doesn't mean that she doesn't have any fantasies of her own. you're probably beating her to the punch line therefore she doesn't voice them or she feels uncomfortable being vocal. hey you sound like you're getting satisfied, how about just appreciate it. have fun, think of me
2007-01-29 04:58:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it is possible for people not to fantasize about sex or about anything. both genders
2007-01-29 04:53:20 · answer #7 · answered by jacky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is most likely uncomfortable sharing them. Not because she feels they are wrong, but maybe she thinks you will be offended by them. She also may not really know how to describe them to you.
2007-01-29 04:58:37 · answer #8 · answered by kalea_kane 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes this is possible .... She is a woman and woman are usually more romantic and intimate then just sexual!
2007-01-29 05:54:28 · answer #9 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes? she maybe opposite of you since opposites attract she may have no imagination in this area of life
2007-01-29 04:53:24 · answer #10 · answered by sirromo4u 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋