I have a song " our song" - from an old relationship on my myspace page- Is this a vaid reason to be upeset?
2007-01-28 20:28:54 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
So, An asumption can be made that if someone has a song from a previous relationship that ended 3 years ago- they still have feelings for that person?
2007-01-28 20:37:24 · update #1
Yep it's wrong dude....move on!
2007-01-28 20:32:27 · answer #1 · answered by sonny 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think if someone were upset over something this trivial they need to go get some mental health treatment really fast. I guess the same person would get upset if they heard the goddamned song being played in a store the spouse was shopping in.
Give me a break!!!!!! Better yet give the person with the song on the myspace page a break!!!!!!!!! Are you a control freak?
2007-01-29 05:06:58 · answer #2 · answered by michael_trussell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would all depend as to why the person had it on there... If it was for romantic memories then i would think it wrong and ask them to remove it and i would try to find a new song for my spouse to put in there to enjoy and listen too... BUT on the other hand if it was just because they liked the song and that was the only reason for it no i would not mind... But i would ask them why it was there. If they could not give me a reason i would also ask them to take it off from there... I feel that in a new relationship that there should be a new song however.
2007-01-29 05:53:13 · answer #3 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"our song" implies the song has a special meaning for you about someone in your past. That's the problem, it could just as well be a love letter or a poem you've posted on the page. In this case the song lyrics reflect your feelings for someone,, because it's "our song", our meaning you and someone other than who you're with now. How inconsiderate can you be?
2007-01-29 05:10:42 · answer #4 · answered by tee_nong_noy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It would depend on why you wanted it on your page. Of all the great songs out there, I would think you could find one that had meaning to your and your spouse or even one that you just like.
2007-01-29 04:32:10 · answer #5 · answered by kalea_kane 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First let’s agree that each and every one of us had a relation once in a while in the past. Those past relation can not be erased. A memories of those relations are always kept inside each of us both good and bad ones. And having those memories does not mean that the person is still having feeling for any of these ex friends. Also, we have to accept each other considering that those memories are now part of the person I ‘m having relation with and in someway it molded the character that I love now.
2007-01-29 04:48:07 · answer #6 · answered by Cheery 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you care about you spouse as much as your suppose to , then why is it so hard to please the spouse. Remove the song, or the spouse could start to not trust you are feel that you do not love them as much as you say. What is more important the spouse or the song. The spouse is what your suppose to be committed to, not a song.
2007-01-29 04:43:53 · answer #7 · answered by m c 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ya it would upset me if my girl had her song from her ex one of the main things that broke me and my girl up is that song lips of a angel she always thought it was cus a ex i had 4 years ago wich isnt true but i stoped listining to that song to make her happy and so should you
2007-01-29 05:03:45 · answer #8 · answered by streetdestroyer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, as long as it's there because you like the song and not because you still have feelings for your ex.
2007-01-29 04:32:19 · answer #9 · answered by rtobor84 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Upset over a song? Talk about insecure, geez. It's only music.
2007-01-29 04:32:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes.
2007-01-29 04:31:32 · answer #11 · answered by biancajh 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋