my wifes sister told me that she masturbates in private to male porn magazines and that her husband masturbates to female porn mags and she reckons its healthy and normal and she reckons its unhealthy that we dont .is she totally space out or what
2007-01-28 20:26:13 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
it's very inappropriate that she told YOU that.
2007-01-28 20:29:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
Well, the porn part I don't think is healthy, but I know a lot of people do still masturbate in a relationship when the other is away. I think that is pretty normal. But if they are both masturbating at home at the same time, and not enjoying watching each other doing it... that's weird.
2007-01-28 20:31:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, it's strange that she told you that, but it's not unhealthy. There's nothing wrong with talking about masturbation or masturbation itself. Masturbation is normal. There's no reason that someone wouldn't continue to do it within a relationship. Sometimes you just want to please yourself in private and alone. It's part of a healthy sex life. I do think it's strange that you and your wife don't masturbate, but whatever floats your boat.
2007-01-28 21:18:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
First I agree she should keep those things private. Really inappropriate to talk to you about it. It's not unhealthy for you not to do this. The only thing that is unhealthy in a marriage is doing something that you both are not comfortable with. If you both like it do it if not don't.
2007-01-28 20:34:56 · answer #4 · answered by noddy 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Masterbating is healthy. Talking to about it to you is not. You don't need to know about her and her husband's sex life. Everyone also has different ways of pleasuring themselves. If you and your wife don't masterbate to porn mags or anything for that matter, that is fine. We are all different.
2007-01-28 21:03:38 · answer #5 · answered by kalea_kane 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It is totally healthy and normal. Every couple is different - don't base worries about your sex life off of other peoples sex lives. As long as you and your partner are happy - who the heck cares what anyone else is doing???
2007-01-28 20:32:19 · answer #6 · answered by Ashley 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Nothing wrong with that. She must feel comfortable around you to tell you such private things. Everyone does it, both with there partners and/or alone. If you dont, it shouldnt trip you out.
2007-01-28 20:59:33 · answer #7 · answered by br_wy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
very healthy,
couples should do it together and watch to learn.
can be a lot of fun.
the worst thing in a relationship is a closed mind, or that old "ewww thats disgusting"
2007-01-28 20:34:24 · answer #8 · answered by countryboy1959 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think that it is very odd to do that in such a relationship. Why can't her husband learn to pleasure her and vise versa? That's one fun part about being married...getting to discover your partner inside and out...what turns them on etc. It almost sounds to me as if there is something missing in their relationship that they would need to be fulfilled elsewhere. Granted, if they are both fine with it and they are both happy...let 'em I guess. I personally don't think it's healthy for the relationship but if it works for them...who am I to judge?
2007-01-28 20:55:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
masturbation although quite common is a private act and I don't think should be shares with others. I say she or both are sick.
2007-01-28 20:30:00 · answer #10 · answered by Oldies from Country Victoria 2 · 2⤊ 2⤋
both of them are normal i guess. It doesn't mean that you aren't healthy for not doing it. If you aren't comfortable with that, don't do it.
2007-01-28 20:34:55 · answer #11 · answered by AY 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋