Really depends on what you want. I go back and forth on this issue in my head all the time. Right now I want to travel and see the world but I don't think it would be fair to ask someone to drop everything and go with me. Maybe if I found the right girl that was willing to go with me, I might get married but it's not really something I'm even sure how to ask girls about and when would you ask someone something like that. Who knows. I say you sould just date and and fun and one day if it feels right then go for it.
2007-01-28 20:22:09
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answered by 2Negative 6
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I never rule out marriage even at my age. Being single has some good points as well as that bad. When you enter your 30's and 40's you will see what I mean. Most of your married friends are on the edge of divorce or on their second turn. I don't go out enough to meet anyone and I don't use alcohol. I'm prepared mentally to accept either fate. I can tell you this much though, I wouldn't get married unless it was a real good attraction in everything including the things I like to do. Too many people get married and then realize they don't have anything in common. I wouldn't want to be in a relationship where I am expected to conform to a new identity.
2007-01-29 04:29:26
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answered by tenbelow 1
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Married.
2007-01-29 04:20:19
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answered by Lilian 5
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I prefer to be single. I don't think marriage is a natural state between a man and a woman. There are too many differences that make a marriage almost impossible.
If marriage was a natural state then you should not have to work at it so very hard. Doing things that you would not ordinarily do just to please another person.
Then there is the lies and deceit that goes on in certain relationships where there is no love but using the other for convenience. In this relationship you have one that is in love and the other using one.
There are so many varieties of marriage. In the United States and other western democracies we are in the habit of one man one woman.
In other cultures which we condemn men are allowed to have more than one wife. In a few cultures women can have more than one husband.
So this marriage thing is something that requires a lot of looking into,but it is not for me.
I hope this has been of some use to you, good luck.
"FIGHT ON"
2007-01-29 04:38:53
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answered by Skip 6
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Single.
2007-01-29 04:34:56
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answered by Nikkers 6
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I'm so surprise.
I think many people in this era will prefer to live single or live together but without "status".
or some kind of one night stand.
so it really surprise me that most of the answer prefer married than being single.
Myself prefer married also.
No wonder cause I'm kinda romantic mellow love oriented girl
2007-01-29 04:54:49
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answered by love 3
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There is actually nothing wrong with being single. It is actually nice to be free to stay out whenever you want, just be your plain old self and have everyone see that you can take care of yourself. But to tell you the truth, I personally wouldn't mind wanting to look good for someone or to be a better person for them. I wouldn't mind knowing that there is someone I can turn to when things are both good and bad, to share everyday and my dreams with. It is nice to be free but I would prefer to be bound to someone who loves me for me. To spend the rest of your life with your best friend is the best thing in the world. I'd definitely pick marriage over being single any day!
2007-01-29 04:41:17
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answered by frenchfries 2
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That is really your preference.
Note. Most people have a grocery list of wants they look for in a prospective mate. IE blue eyes, tall, funny, etc
Toss that list and make a new one of things "I can not stand". IE smoking, swearing, getting drunk, being rude, violence.
When looking (dating) if one of the items on your can not stand list shows as a trait break off the relationship. Even if they fit all of your want list, the trait that you can not stand will cause you major pain in the future.
Once you find a person that has none of your non-desired traits, chances are good that your marriage will be one of those blessed unions.
Good luck on your search and much happiness in your future.
2007-01-29 04:25:07
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answered by ccrstitch2003 2
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Married...happily
2007-01-29 04:23:25
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answered by Anonymous
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Married and have a family
2007-01-29 04:16:30
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answered by Anonymous
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