if one find her wife broken virginity in very first night of their marriage. explore ur thinking about this issue.
2007-01-28 20:11:20 · 15 answers · asked by Green Valley 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
if its that important to you then you should have sent her to a gyno to be exam first before you married her. By the way does this really count that she must be a virgin? i would like you readers to think about it. i thought love was more important and trust there after and not what happened before. what about men who has done say 20 ladies before he got married, does the wife ***** about it? pls grow up
2007-01-28 20:20:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If the virginity is broken, there are many reasons for it. One is like it is broken without her knowledge, may be while cycling, running or any other activity. There is nothing wrong in this.
It can be broken because of self abuse also. There is nothing wrong if a lady feels she should get some pleasure. For this she may use her finger or external articles like carrot, banana or a dildo or something which does the purpose.
There is a rare chance that she may have got raped. This cant be treated her fault either.
There is one more reason, which comes to our mind first when we experience such a situation. She may have slept with some other guy. Before marriage she was independent and she has the right to do it, dont they? So the best thing i suggest is, leave it instead of making it an issue. Respect her feelings before marriage. She is also a human being with feelings
2007-01-28 20:35:46 · answer #2 · answered by Mr Strange 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I'm a chick. But if she lied to you and said she never had sex, then, well, your married to her so there must have been something good about her.
But don't forget, there are so many things that can cause the hymen to break. She could have been raped. It could have been broken simply by falling. Think about that for a bit.
2007-01-28 20:16:44 · answer #3 · answered by FaerieWhings 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A hymen can be broken for many reasons: rape, riding a bike, riding a horse, sometimes even inserting a tampon wrong! Don't jump to conclusions.
2007-01-28 20:28:05 · answer #4 · answered by rtobor84 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Broken can be for many other reason. Not just sex.
So you think what your mind accepts.
2007-01-28 20:14:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
depending on whether your religion is to not have sex before marriage i would be furious if i was a guy but sometimes it just happens. and she has sined!!!!
you can't help the way you feel!
2007-01-28 20:20:02 · answer #6 · answered by Millie 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sometimes it will go with out sex. Check her back ground and Believe her. It happens to me, thanks God I wasn't married otherwise no body would believe me.
2007-01-28 20:32:50 · answer #7 · answered by Baby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fawad - that's muslim name? Osama would say "Bad Girl"!!!
how many? 40 virgins?
2007-01-28 20:23:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It wont affect me dat much. even if i am a virgin or not.
2007-01-28 20:19:02 · answer #9 · answered by || SMI || 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL
somebody else beat you to it, now, everytime you touch her, she will think of him first.
you know you never forget the first one.
don't you remeber your first?
LOL
hurts don't it, and worse thing of all,, prolly your best friend or worse yet, your enemy!!!
2007-01-28 20:16:25 · answer #10 · answered by countryboy1959 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋