My friend has been talking to this one person for atleast a year fromt he Philippines and plans on flying over there and marrying her and staying there? He acts like nothing will happen and that this girl is the one he's meant to be.... he's never met her, he's just seen pictures and some girl on a webcam... what are your thoughts?? IS HE STUPID? he says he's tired of living in the US and wants to live somewhere else... what do you think?? what are your thoughts???
2007-01-28 19:50:07 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
he talks to her 4-5 hrs every night, for almost a year now.... and after about a month, they both started saying they love each other... and now he wants to move out there......
2007-01-28 19:56:03 · update #1
Ya know webcams can be manipulated ( http://www.oatmealmedia.net ) Wouldn't it be funny if he flew all the way out there. . . AND IT WAS A DUDE!
2007-01-30 03:33:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No he's not stupid.... you don't live life until you take chances... this could be the best thing that has ever happened to him.... and he has a better chance of having a succesful relationship with a women from another country than america
2007-01-28 19:54:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's stupid. You should spend sometime offline with the person you met online, before you decide to get married and leave everything else behind. He should just go there for vacation first.
2007-01-28 20:01:28 · answer #3 · answered by Speck Schnuck 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not stupid at all...i moved from New South Wales to Melbourne to be with someone i met off the net!! and we are together and happy as ever!!
Just let him go - see for himself! He may find love he may not - but he will never know if he doesnt go!
2007-01-28 19:55:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is not stupid.
He should at least keep his options open to return if he does not find what he expected.
You are talking of a man I presume. It is a man's world after all. They never have anything to lose.
2007-01-28 19:55:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's not stupid for going after something he believes in; maybe he really will be happier there. If not, he'll have to choose another course of action.
2007-01-28 19:53:32 · answer #6 · answered by ∂ίятУ ℓάυиḋгÿ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im not sure either .... :S ...love is a strange blinding thing i guess ? But it will be tough if he says he's gonna married her when he fly over ..coz they might not even suit each other when face to face ...or seen each other flaws n such ...
But gd luck to him .
2007-01-28 19:55:58 · answer #7 · answered by Cassie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We all have to make our own mistakes--or discover our own brilliant intuition. Maybe your friend has discovered his.
2007-01-28 19:55:06 · answer #8 · answered by itry007 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
al most stupid. you shouldn't mix with tha kids
2007-01-28 19:53:15 · answer #9 · answered by Rivana 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋