want to build carrier of kids.husband is not supporting me & kids too.Not divorce yet.what should I do,to change my future from the past.I'm caring & hardworking too,By GOD.Husband cares my qualities but dont want to take the responsibilities. Suggest me what should I do.I love my husband but dont want to compromise on his conditions only as I was always used by him in the past.
2007-01-28 19:49:27 · 8 answers · asked by p_dverma 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
sit with a piece of paper..write down ur strength & weakness....in which field u r interested in...then search a job for urself.its good u dnt want to be dependent...goodluck
2007-01-28 19:56:41 · answer #1 · answered by shweta - 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
On one side you are telling that you have left husband and on another side you say that you love him very much. How is it possible?
Push out the fucker and lead a new life, rejuvinate yourself, if you are a working lady then try to get yourself transfered to some other new location where you could get help from your family/friend. What ever you are doing ensure that the future of your child is not effected.
Make it crystal clear that you have to be away from your cheater husband. A Cheater will always cheat, today its you tomorrow it may be your daughters turn.
Take care, throw the garbage out from your house.What sort of love do you have for such type of person?
2007-01-29 22:39:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have two daughters you're not alone! This is a lot harder on them than it is on you! Suck it up,start thinking about them instead of yourself and you won't have time to be miserable! To change your future you must change your choices. The decisions you've made are what got you here. What are your options? Do you have support from family,friends,church or government? What do you need to meet your daughters basic needs? What do you have to use?
I'm sorry if I sound harsh. I've been in your position and know how hard it is,but the sooner you stop crying and start trying the better off you all will be. My prayers are with you.
2007-01-28 20:00:56 · answer #3 · answered by Neeta 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even if you love him, you cannot let yourself be his doormat, especially when it concerns your children's lives too. Get separated and/or divorced from him and keep working to give your children the best education possible. Also invest for your future. Do not let that cheat spoil your life and that of kids as well. You may even turn him to police, if he has been fraudulent with you and try to recover some of your money back.
2007-01-29 00:59:35 · answer #4 · answered by Smriti 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this being a compex situation i would advice u to not to lose heart just remember one thng this too will pass theres a lot of good thngs which are waiting for u to happen n as u said u r hard working tht should b no probelm take up some tutions at ur place or if u r havin a hobby say like music try to develop it into a career,mayb after seeing this ur husband will reaise wat mistake he has done n god willingly ur life will b smooth again
so have faith in him n do ur best god bless
2007-01-30 07:11:19 · answer #5 · answered by Rishi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are a lot of cases like you ,we have to compromise the life for building the career of children, so that when they grow up they are not helpless that anyother can exploite them. Better you compromise ,at least your daughter will be happy in their life( who cares how you managed?) There are a lot of good, educated , & decent gals doing jobs & are independent,they are not exploited bcos their mothers had become foundation stone for them & they sacrifices for daughter.
2016-03-29 07:41:16 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if ur husband &children are not with u.......... leave them for a while .............. think silently with ur heart............ what it says do the right thing..................dont listin any one suggestion.....be ferm and take right desions........... as u are educated women...........................gud luck
2007-01-31 01:22:00 · answer #7 · answered by paka a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
train tracks close by?
stand on them.
2007-01-28 19:56:26 · answer #8 · answered by countryboy1959 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋