i am a married male 35...me and wife love each other a lot...we lead a very happy married life
My problem is my wife's sister also has fallen in love with me....she proposed me and i told NO....but she wants me badly...she told my wife about her love towards me...my wife accepted her sister's love towards me...and my wife wants me to have sex with her sister atleast once in a week...I am not interested in it...WHAT TO DO?
2007-01-28 19:41:37 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
very lucky u r.
jokes apart,
Do what u feel is right.
Having sex with ur sister in law once in life or once in a week, will not solve the basic problem.
Basic problem is ur sister in law's attitude.She is trying to interfere in ur married life.
Try to explain her that she is your sister and having sex is not morally allowed and your conscience is also not allowing you to do so.Try to explain her that its not correct.
Try to explain her to control her emotions and either get married as soon as possible if she is not married or tell her if her husband comes to know of this he will be very sad.Convince her that its wrong, socially and morally.
Your wife knowing the fact and asking you to have sex with ur sister in law is also not a good sign.
Try to explain your love and faithfulness to your wife.Say her that you cannot share yourself with anybody else.Let your wife take the charge and try to convince ur sister in law not to think so and leave such thoughts and emotions.
Last word.IF U R NOT INTERESTED, ITS VERY GOOD.THIS SHOWS THAT U ARE A GOOD PERSON.DO NOT DO ANYTHING WHICH YOUR CONSCIENCE DOES NOT ALLOW YOU TO DO EVEN UR WIFE INSISTS AS HAVING SEX WITH UR SISTER IN LAW IS NOT GOOD.
2007-01-28 20:00:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're going to get in lots of trouble if you start banging the sister, dude...you already know that. Your wife has been telling her sister what a fabulous lover you are and now the sister wants to get a sample. Sit them both down and tell them; I'm married to YOU,not your sister. If you can't accept that and not bring someone else into our marriage, I won't be married to anyone! "What to do?"....do exactly what you feel..."I'm not interested"! I respect a man like you! Godloveya.
2007-01-28 19:47:58 · answer #2 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is ridiculous!!!i think ur wife shldbe taken to psychatrist...make her understand..love is not only physical relation it is much much above tat...sex is just a form of expression...tell ur wife the consequence of all this..isnt she possesive?well...and tell ur sister in law tat if she loves u, let me live my life happily cause any such form of relation will affect ur conciuos and u wont be happy...make both of them understand the fact that this kind of relation will ruin you from ur soul and you wont be happy....if they really do care about you they will understand...also ask ur sister in law to get married if she really needs a man or a physical relation....
2007-01-28 19:51:53 · answer #3 · answered by harsha s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol
what tree do you squirrels hid in?
your nickname says american, thats gotta be a dream, you cant even write smooth, and you want us to believe your wife want you to pound her sister at least once a week and you don't want to?, are you really this dumb?
and then, we have the standard idiot response from the peanut gallery!! "get a divorce" that has to be a standard reaction from pea brains.
LOL
2007-01-28 19:47:16 · answer #4 · answered by countryboy1959 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just tell your wife that you don't feel comfortable with sleeping with her sister and that you are simply not interested in her.
2007-01-28 19:45:21 · answer #5 · answered by Random 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say no. Oh...you might also want to figure out if you are 35 or 21 since you are posting several diferent kinds of questions here with various ages and experiences.
2007-01-28 19:44:19 · answer #6 · answered by kalea_kane 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
What a real wife men!
2007-01-28 20:40:48 · answer #7 · answered by Baby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats the strangest thing i have heard, nothing you can do. Just say no. I dont understand why women cant understand it sometimes if it were a man, people start shouting harrasment
2007-01-28 19:45:01 · answer #8 · answered by jaffarkelshac 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what is the problem.
80% people do it without interest also.do as mechanical action
2007-01-28 19:52:41 · answer #9 · answered by sk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be an obedient husband.
2007-01-28 19:56:41 · answer #10 · answered by spud 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋