Do you think there is a big misconception about what "love" is?

Question

I see tons of questions from askers if he loves me or she loves me and lots of times it is nowhere close to love. Just plain homones going wild.

And yes I understand that everyone has their own ideas of what and who they love. But there are countless relationships that started on the premise of "love" and found out later it really was wishful thinking and he or she turned out to be a real loser.

Answer 1

Some people think that sex= love but not so. Sex= sex there was some guy once who told me , I'm not kidding you here " A hole is just a hole" and needless to say I was not with him very long.

Answer 2

I believe love has many definitions, and many different levels. It is possible to love someone in a different way that you would love someone else. I have loved a few people in my 39 years of life, but all in different ways and all to different degrees.
I think everyone has their own definition of love.

Answer 3

Hey Phineus, love is whatever makes you happy. Love is whatever you want it to mean. Love is very personal, very subjective, very unusual for each of us. You obviously don't love what I love, and there's no reason you should. Your loves are personal to you, mine to me. Love is subjective, not objective. I love myself, my wife, my children and grandchildren, my dogs, my house, my car, my work, my everything. I love it. But you don't have to. My loves are personal to me, yours personal to you. My only requirement is that love be a happy experience. I'm happy with my loves. I hope you are too.

Answer 4

In some cases. I think as you get older it's easier to sift through lust and love.

Answer 5

Well clearly since there's such a high divorce rate.

Answer 6

nope.

hormones going wild can lead to love. all depernds,