woman age 45, divorced, no kidz. healthy, not suicidal/no depression. . But she doesn`t know how to live a alone anymore. no reliable family member. good job, with small saving. what to do?/tried 2-3 online relationship, but not working. She doesn`t date because of religious reason. Can you help her how to live her life happily.she needs a good reson to live.otherwise she will be very very sad.sick of pretending to be ok and happy in front of people daily.
2007-01-28 18:47:50 · 8 answers · asked by b a 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Try making friends in your community. Join a class where you can meet more people. You can even spend your free time doing things outside of your home so you don't feel all alone.
2007-01-28 18:52:40 · answer #1 · answered by green_baby_dragon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Part of the problem is that she's looking outside for happiness in her life. She doesn't NEED to be in a relationship or have family involvement in order to have a fulfilled, productive life. She can get involved with social activities or groups. Do volunteer work with her free time. Travel. Choose a hobby. Even become a foster parent. If she's truly a religious person then her life should be worth living despite her being on her own. Tell her to think about that.
2007-01-29 02:56:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a hobby of some sort.
Join single groups in the area.
Go on a single cruise.
Go to church and join clubs there.
Start meeting just friends online and hang out.
Go take a class you always wanted to take and join clubs in that group.
2007-01-29 03:13:50 · answer #3 · answered by LC 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm trying to figure out what religion allows you to divorce but not date. If you can't date how will you ever get married again. Did you not date your ex before you got married? Maybe you need to re examine your beliefs cause you do not sound like they are a comfort or fulfilling you.
2007-01-29 03:06:42 · answer #4 · answered by noddy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She should do some communitiy activity where she can meet people of the opposite sex, with out any problem from society. It may give quite a good choice of men, and the men will all be of a particular disposition, that may suit her.
2007-01-29 03:01:05 · answer #5 · answered by wizard of the East 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get busy and volunteer- and get out and know people- volunteer delivering meals- at a soup kitchen- shelter- school- tutor adults or children- get busy-or find group w those of her religion-D
2007-01-29 02:54:19 · answer #6 · answered by Debby B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get in touch with a grief counselor.
2007-01-29 02:53:25 · answer #7 · answered by Dorothy and Toto 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
where does she live?
2007-01-29 02:50:35 · answer #8 · answered by goodlionvic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋