Me (guy 13) and my second cousin (a girl) that is 13, were "fooling around" when my parents were gone...
Well, now shes nott a virgin. Only me and here know about it, What should we do. Please Help!
2007-01-28 18:28:22 · 25 answers · asked by Ch D 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Nothing you can do now - was it fun?
2007-01-29 02:11:41 · answer #1 · answered by bad_bob_69 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You didn't give very much information. For example, are you the reason she's no longer a virgin?
Are we talking about hymenal ripping? Penetration?
I think you both need to have some discussions with parents as soon as possible. Health professionals and clergy you trust might also be a good idea.
I'm assuming that you don't trust too many adults where you are or are completely making this up.
Are you or she on birth control? What started this fooling around?
Are you two in a relationship?
Please think about these things.
Make sure to stay in contact with the girl (if allowed by your parents), so that she does not feel alone.
If you're going to play grown-up games, please be aware of the consequences.
I wouldn't want you to be traumatized and afraid of sex later, be a dad at 14, get a disease, or regret your actions emotionally later.
Do you know any adults you can trust?
2007-01-29 02:38:00 · answer #2 · answered by Dante 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wow... there you re how old ??? first of all my love i understand hormones and all but that was going a little to far but whats done is done..and life.... it goes on... I'm sure your not in love with your cousin or anything it was just fooling around right? however at this point i really hope you are in love because of the consequences that you could be facing like being a DADDY. love talk to her and have her take a pregnancy test then go from there face the though-est road first if shes not pregnant then this could all be a Little less stress full but if she is I'm sure we will be hearing from you again.
god-bless and let us know how it turns out
2007-01-29 02:40:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First you both need to stop fooling around you are both way to young. Second if either of you have been fooling around with anyone else you need to be tested for STDs and she needs to get a pregnancy test done. Your local health department should be able to help you with this or your own Dr.'s without having to tell your parents. Lastly find someone that is not a family member to date and wait until you are truly in love for everything else. Good Luck.
2007-01-29 02:35:56 · answer #4 · answered by bizwomn 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well you cannot get her virginity back. Unless she might be pregnant , there really is no reason to say anything to anyone. Just stay away from now on. One of you needs to buy a pregnancy test and she needs to check in a couple of weeks. If she is pregnant, then you must tell her parents right away.
You are a BABY!!!! No more, please!!
2007-01-29 14:50:25 · answer #5 · answered by kramerdnewf 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure what the problem is? Is she pregnant? If not i wouldn't worry about it. You can't change what's happened in the past. You don't say how far your "fooling around" when but if you are having sex then you need to discuss contraception urgently. You are both very young to be considering that type of relationship but these things happen.
2007-01-29 02:33:45 · answer #6 · answered by gerrifriend 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ok ok..calm down. You are 13, you guys harmones are raging. I guess it was an experiment type thing. Your biggest fear now is that she is not pregnant. Other than that, just calm down, people make mistakes. I admit it was a gross one but just dont do it again and pray she isnt pregnant.
Nothing else you CAN do but put it behind you.
2007-01-29 03:06:02 · answer #7 · answered by nikogal2006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your parents. See a counselor. You're not a freak or a criminal, you just made a mistake, and now you and your cousin need some adult help on the subject. Trust me on this one, talk to somebody. You won't be judged, just helped.
2007-01-29 02:34:46 · answer #8 · answered by mina_lumina 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First of all you do know that was wrong ---Right......I wouldn't tell anyone about it. Hopefully you used protection. I know all kids are curious about sex so I am not going to put you down. Don't ever do it again with a family member. You both are 2 young to be doing anything like that.
2007-01-29 02:36:23 · answer #9 · answered by raspberrysmell 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Start picking out BABY names Sorry about that it sliped. what were you thinking?Dont do it again. Tell both of your parents so they can beat some sense into you. That slipped out also.You could get a stapler and fix it couldnt you.Another slip,im sorry
2007-01-29 02:52:01 · answer #10 · answered by lawson403 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm, toughie... second cousin is still bad, but not as bad Iguess... I woudl keep it between the two of you for now... but if it continues, I wold seriously talk to a trusted adult and they can help you 2.. I wouldn't do it again though.. get her pregnant.. yeah, I would like to see you try and explain that one...
2007-01-29 02:37:56 · answer #11 · answered by Mommy of 2 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋