i like my best friend who is a girls and never wnt to lose her i did everything for her, i shared my every feelings with her some situations arise and we cant meet for a long time of one year when i asked her if she like someone she denied, i asked her if she was proposed by some one she denied, i asked her she want a love or arrange marriage she said love marriage . I asked these things becoz i think i am loving her and cant live without her. I also felt that she also like me very much as she told me that she always think abt me at home she was jealous when i told her that i have a very good female friend but actually noone one day i gave her a letter with written inside that i m thinking to propose her she became angry with me and told me that she would break our friendship i save my friendship but i even love her what shud i do plzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz help me?
2007-01-28 18:26:24 · 9 answers · asked by vipin k 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
She doesn't love you...Find someone else....
2007-01-28 19:33:26 · answer #1 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Dear
What i feel that being friendly with you this many days, she has not expected that you will directly propose her, though you may have asked all the the questions to know her view about the marriage & love.
The better thing is first try to retain your friendship. So go to her and say sorry and tell her this type of things will not happen in future. But at the back of her mind she knows how much you loves her. you try to know the reasons why she is not intrested in you speaking with her close friends are even with their parents, if you know them very well.
First thing is to restart the friendship by speaking with her openly and make sure that she conviniced completly with your talk.
THERE IS SAYING. IF YOU LOVE SOMEBODY SPREAD IT IN THE AIR IF IT COMEBACKS TO YOU IT IS YOURS AND IF IT DOESN'T THEN IT IS NOT YOURS. YOU DO THE SAME THING.
GOD BLESS YOU
2007-01-28 18:54:14 · answer #2 · answered by mirjalaguda 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
See friend if u have truly loved that girl that means if she is happy that will be the best reward for you ....So you have to be patient enough but keep watching all her foot steps ahead.but u have to make her know u still love her not by words but by ur actions and those actions must be silent.coz if u gonna show it then it can break th friendship
give her too much time as much as possible and on th other way make urself capable i mean suitable for her.then see it will happen automatically.women are not like us...they take time to disclose...so all u have to do is...do take care of her and let her know all ur feelings but very slowly........GIVE HER TIME...sanjay
2007-01-28 18:48:38 · answer #3 · answered by Nishant 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give her a time that only i can say
n side by side try to ignore her just b very formal with her if she likes u and want to b with u then she will feel bad but friend u hav to do it after all u want her to love you
than try to talk with her on other topic and just don't listen her too much when she try to talk to u.
oops i am a girl and telling u all this no problem yaar after all u r in love and no doubt she loves you but these girls r girls yaar u can not understand them. haaaaaaaaaaa
2007-01-29 02:59:33 · answer #4 · answered by priya 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be consistent and react to her signs. If she says no, then take it as no. Sometimes chicks say no when they're not sure to avoid getting into something they don't want. Give her time to be sure. You don't want to spoil your friendship by pressuring her.
2007-01-28 18:31:28 · answer #5 · answered by Lucy D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to hr again 1 last time & tell hr abt ur feelings
propose hr
if she says no, move im sure ur so good that u cn find some1 else.bt be4 be sure to tell hr abt ur true feelings towards her
2007-01-28 22:46:02 · answer #6 · answered by deepu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should talk to her insted of writting letter r takig othrs hep
2007-01-28 20:32:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on and forget her
2007-01-28 18:29:40 · answer #8 · answered by Tuxi X 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her if she says no leave her and keep ur friendship.........
2007-01-28 18:39:36 · answer #9 · answered by *niki loves all god* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋