Hey so it started in my Sophmore year of high school, there was this girl in my class who I thought was cute. She was a shy type who usually studies rather than actually talking to anyone other then her friends. I wanted to talk to her for a while but whenever I'm near her I'll usually chicken out and give up. (Yeah I know I'm a coward...) After the months passed we actually started talking once in a while. What really helped us was a science project that has to do with reactions. During the project I just joke around with her and she laughs and stuff (Yay!). Ever since then we became friends kinda. Whenever we see eachother she would just smile at me say hi to me even when she's in a conversation with her friends (and she usually ignores ppl when she talks to her friends). At first I thought I got her to like me because she treated me different then with the other guy friends she knew longer which made me happy and stuff. Then my junior year came... More details in a bit...
2007-01-28 18:24:48 · 8 answers · asked by Bboying Ryogo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Ok so its my junior year in high school, I went to New York for the whole summer which meant I had no contact with her for like 3 or 2 whole months. And the first person I recognized was her... She changed her hair abit, no glasses, and shes still as cute as ever. When she saw me, she gave me a very nice smile and blushed, which made me blush too (geez I'm a dork lol) Well any then I found out that she wasn't in any of my classes, not even Lunch! I was sad then but I still saw her after school which I was glad. As the days go by it was homecomming month. I thought it was my chance to ask her to be my date....but my problem was just like her...I'm too shy. It was the last 2 week and I know that I have to ask her b4 its too late...but there were some bumps...Like one time I got her attention and when I finally was about to ask her- My sis comes in and drags me to the other side of the building asking for help on her locker.. More wait up...
2007-01-28 18:33:41 · update #1
Well its 3 days left til the dance and I bought a flower so I could either leave it on her first period class with a note or just ask her straight up(i picked the second one) but when I was gonna go see her, my friend said to me, "Hey she showed me your note, what did she said?" At first I was like "WTH?" then he told me I wrote a note to her saying "Will you go to Homecomming with me. Meet me after school" I was shocked cuz I would never write a note to anyone ESPECIALLY when it comes to asking someone to homecoming! When I asked him how he knew about it he told she showed it to him and said, "Look what your FRIEND gave me" (which was weird because she would usually say my name instead of "your friend") So I searched everywhere for her but no luck til Friday...On thurs however I found out it was my other friend who wrote it and he did cuz I wouldnt ask her that day (which was ironic cuz I was gonna ask since i got my flower and all...) so he felt bad. Dang no more room hold up..
2007-01-28 18:46:41 · update #2
On Friday I finally found her...with her friend though which made me very nervous but I got up my courage and explained to her what happened (which i didnt need to do cuz she knew it wasnt me who wrote it) Then I just go with it and asked her straight up, but then she said she couldnt go with me...She told me because she'd already planned to go with all her friends that are girls as a group. when she left her friend wanted to know why I wanted to talk with her. I told her everything and she was cool with me (also saying it was cute of me to ask her friend since no one asked her yet) then she told me I should just dance with her even though she wasnt my date. So then I just relaxed til the dance came... but in the last few days whenever I see her, she doesnt say hey or hi to me anymore..it was strange because she would always say hi to me with a cute smile then I would blush (lol) and say hi back. Well they last days went by and its the night of the Homecomming dance...
2007-01-28 18:55:49 · update #3
At homecoming I was pumped up and I was cofident that I will have a relationship with her once I dance with her, but the problem was... I couldnt find her! I looked everywhere while dancing my a$$ off just to ask her to dance but no luck....Then the last dance came and i was running out of time. Thats when i saw her dancing with another guy that made me sad cuz she lied to me and stuff (dang thats dorkey). The next day my friend told me that it was her date and that he asked her the same day i did after I asked her. Then after that we stopped talking for some reason. I mean not even a passing hello or anything. She even deleted me from her friends list on mypace with no explanation why. Well 4 months passed and I started to miss talking to her, I mean even though she lied to me, i still liked talking to her so finally after a long explanation, What should I do? Should I talk to her or just forget about her.....help pls...?
2007-01-28 19:19:54 · update #4
i think that u should talk 2 her tell her how u feel its the best way she might understand n feel the same but she might not she will respect u more 4 telling her the Truth n not being annoying it
2007-02-05 06:04:16 · answer #1 · answered by maxine p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find her. if you talk to her and tell her how much she hurt you she will probbly feel bad for lying to you but yall could become friends or even a coupple.
2007-02-06 01:06:10 · answer #2 · answered by phiebe_sca 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U make me tired ..we live only once either u ask her out or not ,,,
2007-01-29 03:07:05 · answer #3 · answered by Silent tear 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her out and if you don't want to do that just tell her about your feelings.
2007-02-05 08:40:11 · answer #4 · answered by rebel_lover_10 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its been answered for yo shes not interested. shoudn't you take the hint.
2007-02-04 20:28:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well. my opinion. is to just forget her. there is better girls out there.
2007-01-29 05:36:57 · answer #6 · answered by Cutie Bery 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW, aren't you tired and flustered???? I AM.
2007-02-05 13:03:50 · answer #7 · answered by J.M.C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
c'mon ,trim down your question
2007-02-05 11:53:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋