2007-01-28 18:14:20 · 26 answers · asked by no_bling_05 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No, you are a human being... it is not only not wrong, it is also normal.
It is wrong to act on those feeling of attraction though.
2007-01-28 18:19:17 · answer #1 · answered by flappymcp 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋
It's possible to be attracted to someone whether you are married or not.
There are some people in the world that have that charisma or quality that turns you on. And it has nothing to do with being unfaithful to your husband or wife or b/f or g/f. It is just a natural phenomenon that occurs to probably everyone sooner or later.
How you react to it is the key to it. You can have the feelings for someone and go on and live your life without having to submit to those desires.
Is it wrong? If you are alive and vibrant, you many times can't help it. It just is what it is. A biological attraction that you can have without acting on it. How you react is what determines the right or wrong of it.
2007-01-29 02:24:13 · answer #2 · answered by Gnome 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is my belief if you really attracted to someone besides your husband and you have them in your mind you may start comparing them to your husband. Even worse you may even act on it if you hit some trying times in your marriage that might not be so happy. It's best to know why are you are so attracted to another man besides the man your husband that has took a marriage vow to always Love, Honor and Cherish you? Know Marriage is something we must work on especially when it's trying to stay attracted to are husbands and wife's. These steps could help you because they really help me and my wife: 1. Take time every day to listen to your husband with your full attention. 2. Pray with your husband everyday. 3. Show him nonsexual affection every day. Billy Graham Says: "If you consider your husband a wonderful person and if you respect him, you are playing the part of a foolish child to entertain thoughts of infatuation which belong to high school age people." "It is easy for another man to show you attention when it involves periodic favors and demonstrations without all the responsibility of being married." "Often if we will demonstrate our love to our mates, the love we are searching for will be reciprocated." "Follow what the bible says that you should be obedient and submissive like to show (Honor) to your husband so maybe what you give out to him will come back to you." "Also know that we go beyond attracted and we may start thinking what life would be like with another man, such a infatuation is a sin in God's sight. Confess it and allow this little attraction to bring you to a true and maybe more happy relationship with Jesus and your loving husband."
2007-01-29 03:09:16 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your happily married, I dont see why you'd be attracted to another. The other thought is how would you feel if your mate felt attracted to another???
2007-01-29 02:22:19 · answer #4 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not wrong to be attracted.
It is wrong to be more attracted to that person than your spouse. You are already in love, remember?
It is definately wrong to attempt to make something out of that attraction - some kind of relationship.
Be strong.
2007-01-29 02:21:02 · answer #5 · answered by starlet_8 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not at all! Its quite normal. What is wrong is acting on this attraction. Just because you are committed doesn't mean you are blind. Just dont act on it and also dont make it too obvious to your partner that you attracted to someone else.
2007-01-29 02:27:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Other people don't start looking ugly just because you've taken wedding vows. It's completely natural to be attracted to attractive people. It's only wrong when you take it farther then looking.
2007-01-29 02:18:45 · answer #7 · answered by karespromise 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are attracted then you are not happy, if you are looking because someone is attractive, no harm done. just don't go past looking. If you do any kind of "Damn I'd hit that", it's wrong wether you would or wouldn't "hit that"
2007-01-29 02:21:53 · answer #8 · answered by Mamma M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if you have sexual thoughts of this person you are attracted to then yes... Its a big problem... But if you find the person attractive then no big deal.. there are many attractive people in this world..
2007-01-29 02:20:06 · answer #9 · answered by ompie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you can't help who you are attracted to..but with that being said, you should try to tap into yourself and find out why you are beginning to stray away..and allowing yourself to look at other women in "that way"...only you can really answer this.
2007-01-29 02:35:57 · answer #10 · answered by Minty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. You are always going to be attracted to others...as long as you don't do anything with the attraction you are fine.
2007-01-29 02:19:33 · answer #11 · answered by Truth Hurts 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋