ok well me and this girl were never together but well she cheated on her b/f with me and and we are still messing around and we have liked each other since before she got with her boyfriend but we didnt tell each other.and now i feel like im madly i love with her, and i have tried to stop talking to her because of fights that we have had(like her choosing her b/f over me eventhough i knew she would pick him)and i feel like im her b itch because she come with me then she goes with him and it feels horrible and not to long ago i told her that we should leave each other alone and i didnt speak to her for a week and yesterday i saw her at a party and i ignored her at first but the whole time i felt like crying and i missed her so much! and i kept on looking at her..until she approached me and we talked and kissed..and today i saw her again and she was supposed to stay for a party but she left(she ditched me) and i found out she left me for her b/f..what should i do? how do i get over her!?
2007-01-28 17:56:06 · 3 answers · asked by pixie7 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
and if it chages anything im a girl
and i feel like i want her.....
sometimes i feel like crying when i dont have her in my arms
because the truth i wanna be the one that hugs her and kisses her in public
i wanna be the on that says "yeah shes my girlfriend"
i wanna be the one who takes walks with her through the park holding hands without being scared of being seen.
but i cant have that...so i have to get over her but how it pains me so much to let her go?
2007-01-28 17:58:44 · update #1
I am soo sorry to hear what that girl did to you! You need to just let it go everything happens for a reason. I dont even know you and after what i read in your message you deserve way better someone who loves you and respects you ans wants to kiss you in public and goes to parties with you! Its going to take some time but i think you deserve better!!!
2007-01-28 18:26:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hear your pain and believe me, I understand. You've got some good advice here, from others. All relationships are difficult and when only one person has strong feelings, it's doubly difficult...and painful. There are no easy answers. You can't change how another person feels, or acts. All you can change is how you will react. You have to decide how much energy you want to invest in a one-way relationship. Don't beat up yourself. Look for a relationship that works both ways, You deserve it. You'll find it. Good luck.
2007-01-29 02:33:51 · answer #2 · answered by judgebill 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it hurts - but really, the worst thing you can do is continue seeing her and "messing around" with her. It sounds like she enjoys messing around with you but she's not into having an actual girlfriend like you'd like her to be. She's experimenting with you and she's not considering your feelings. It's hard - but you need to walk away from her and find someone who wants to be with YOU.
2007-01-29 02:05:55 · answer #3 · answered by karespromise 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋