My roommates are having trouble with one another and I'm the guy stuck in the middle. and neither of them wants to adimit that there is trouble between them and they don't want to sit down and have a dissussion. They are acting like a two children. What can i do?
2007-01-28 17:51:16 · 5 answers · asked by little_kame 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
As each one separately what he would say to the other if he could say anything he wanted. Then ask if he would repeat this to the other in your presence. OR, tell each one that you find yourself in the middle of what feels to you like a fight. Tell them that tonight at 8pm the three of you will try to answer YOUR concerns. Then tell them why you are concerned and ask each one separately how to help you deal with your concern. The idea, of course, is to get them talking to each other.
2007-01-28 18:15:42 · answer #1 · answered by judgebill 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not everyone deals with things the best head-on in a discussion. If they are both dealing with the situation by avoiding it, then I guess they do have something in common. It may just fizzle out over some time, but if not, try bringing it out comedically in every day conversation to make light of the situation. Such as, "yo brian, want to go to a movie with me and billy? oh yeah, nevermind, i forgot you babies can't get along..." That should ease up the silent tension surrounding the issue, and they'll confront their issues or they'll laugh it off and start lightening up about each other.
2007-01-28 18:05:49 · answer #2 · answered by answer-liscous 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I bet it is over something so small that if you take out your video camera start taping and then tell them its time to watch a video they might laugh and say sorry to eachother
2007-01-28 18:01:36 · answer #3 · answered by Gina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WELL OK HERES WHAT YOU HAVE TO DO MAKE THEM SIT DOWN WITH EACH OTHER AND WORK IT OUT AND NO ONE LAVES THE ROOM INTILL THEY DO
2007-01-28 17:56:13 · answer #4 · answered by Jen H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WELl thats really serious.
2007-01-28 18:10:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋