I just got back with my ex boyfriend who I dated for a couple years. He tells me that he wants to keep me happy and now its gonna be all about me... The thing is he's a PHD student and its his first year, always busy, and he lives 5 miles away from me, yet we are only going to see each once a week because he has to study...
I'm trying to understand things but its really difficult. What is in his mind, when he doesn't have much time for me? Are Capricorns sincere and honest in relationships? Should I give things time and not end this relationship?
2007-01-28 17:46:00 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Horoscopes
Capricorns are ambitious in nature. If there is something that we really want to accomplish, we really do our best to get it. But that doesn't mean that we already forgot our love ones. We want to excel not for ourselves but for the people that we love. Capricorns are compassionate but not passionate.
Your boyfriend is doing his very best so that you'll have a bright & stable future together.. (^_^)
2007-01-28 20:46:47 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whatever prompted you to get back with this man? Wasn't he always first of all mindful of what he was trying to achieve?
Didn't he always have this need to better himself?
You haven't given any clue about your own sign so it's hard to give you ways to cope with the lack of attention you feel.
Nevertheless, it is first and foremost the need of the Capricorn man to climb the ladder of success; it's like breathing to him, if you get my meaning.
He wants a relationship with someone he can count on, someone who will support his goal to reach the top of the mountain. It is also part of his nature to be a very good (better than average) provider for his beloved and/or family. He is superbly responsible and wouldn't think of shirking his duties.
You might sit down with him and without him interrupting, explain that this 2nd chance, _to you,_ means that you and he will spend more time together to build your memories. Caps like building, so I'd use that word. They are as a rule very sincere and/or honest. What is he thinking? He's thinking that he's got a lot on his plate, that he's got to do everything in his power to achieve his success. His success comes in increments as he diligently works his way up the ladder. You can either be his help-mate while he's climbing or you, at the very least, not slow him down. That's not to say that you do, understand, but if he's not able to see you as often as you'd like, you can at least make sure his constantly reminded of you with "sweet little nothing reminders like love notes under his door/in his mailbox and short and sweet occasional messages on his answering machine. _Don't overdo it,_ just do it often enough for him to miss it when you don't. This last is only for his answering machine.
He's looking for a help-mate as well as a life mate. If you can see yourself in this role and well provided for in the effort, go for it!
Try to bring out his humorous side; it may be well hidden. Practice smiling with and at him.
He's every ounce worth it!
Best of Luck
2007-01-29 11:45:00 · answer #2 · answered by Moe J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately love sometimes takes a back seat to our ambitions. Just be open and tell him when your lonely or desire more attention.
2007-01-29 02:32:27 · answer #3 · answered by BluLizard 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they are workaholics,and don't show their feeling he will be testing you all the time to see if your trustworthy or ambitious he wants a woman who can bring something to the table..can be some what controlling
2007-01-29 01:51:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
im a capricorn and yes were honest and real about ours if they dont like it they can get the HIKING
2007-01-29 10:51:32 · answer #5 · answered by tasashamascott 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋