ok I'm in love with this girl named Brittany but she is my best friend and also has a bf. I love her more than anything in this world but she is in love with her bf... there is also an age difference she's 13 and I'm 17. We tell each other everything I've even told her I love her and written songs but she always says that's sweet or yeah right. I want to show her that she means everything in this world to me. I really need some ideas on how to win her heart from her current bf. This feeling is not new I have loved her for 2 years, 17 days, 6 hours, 15 minutes and 13 seconds. Please help any ideas or advice would be great.
2007-01-28 17:13:13 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Young love, how cute!
Tell her how you feel. Life is to short to not take chances.
2007-01-28 17:15:58 · answer #1 · answered by wandering_canuck 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is too young at 13 for a bf of 17 - you need a girl your own age and maturity level. A four year difference when you are older isn't a big deal but right now it is. You will be 18 soon and could get into big trouble dating a minor. She's basically jail bait but more than that, she's a child still and too young to have a boyfriend. Pining away for a girl you can't have just keeps you from finding someone you can have - someone in your age range - like a high school girl.
2007-01-28 17:21:39 · answer #2 · answered by danamarie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just keep adding up those days, minutes, seconds, Buddy. As long as she has a boyfriend, You have no right to tell her how you feel. You will lose her friendship and trust if you try breaking them up. She will despise you for it. Is that what you want? She is too young to be involved with anybody anyway.You're talking jail time next year and for the next 5 years in some states. Find someone your own age and let her grow up.
2007-01-28 17:20:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Awwww! That's soooo sweet! But you know, considering that you're over 16 and she's under, there are laws prohibiting you two to be together. That just makes it so much more romantic! I suggest you just remain friends until she turns 16. And, you might drive her away with your consistent reminders of loving her. She might feel pressured to break up with her boyfriend or something. I mean, you're her best friend. That counts for a lot. There's a lot of ground work already. Just enjoy the time you have together. Wait for her and you to mature. Make sure of your feelings before you do something committal. I mean, would losing her friendship be worth it?
2007-01-28 17:24:55 · answer #4 · answered by Mechiko 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you I would see other girls,and not to be obsessive to your best friend,you are only hurting your self,she has bf,that she is inlove with. And what if the tables turn on you,a guy will snatch the girl you love,How would you feel? Stop fooling your self,move on. If the two of you meant for each other.....then you wait and see.
2007-01-28 17:33:52 · answer #5 · answered by Vannili 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude!!!! Whats the matter with you son? Please go and find someone your own age.You are asking for trouble. I would never let my 13 yr old go with a guy your age. She is still a child. She may not look like one but emotionally she probably is one beleive me. Is her boyfriend 17 also? You need to leave her alone. Her boyfriend needs to be her bestfriend. Step aside. You are only infatuated.
2007-01-28 17:21:59 · answer #6 · answered by La Cicada 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
here's some advise for you! at the age of 13 no one knows what love is!!! you need to remember that the mentality of a 13 year old is not the same as yours, she probably still has her barbies in the closet! my advise to you is let her grow up! you will get some serious jail time. you need to watch to catch a predator!!!! how old is her boy friend???
2007-01-28 17:22:38 · answer #7 · answered by kelly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Brittany Vickers? mole! and you're a pedo... by 1 year by the way... and you loved an 11 year old when you were 15?
2007-01-28 17:19:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aside from the fact that she's only 13, I'd say wait til she turns 18 otherwise you can be doing some hard jail time.
2007-01-28 17:15:52 · answer #9 · answered by wanninonni 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
aww thats so sweat! But whats wierd about that story is that im 13 and my name is brittany? ok any way... just wait a few more years!
2007-01-28 17:20:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's only 13 years old!!!
And has a boyfriend???
Sorry you need to find someone your own age...or wait in the sidelines till she grows up abit.
2007-01-28 17:16:04 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋