ok well me and this girl were never together but well she cheated on her b/f with me and and we are still messing around and we have liked each other since before she got with her boyfriend but we didnt tell each other.and now i feel like im madly i love with her, and i have tried to stop talking to her because of fights that we have had(like her choosing her b/f over me eventhough i knew she would pick him)and i feel like im her b itch because she come with me then she goes with him and it feels horrible and not to long ago i told her that we should leave each other alone and i didnt speak to her for a week and yesterday i saw her at a party and i ignored her at first but the whole time i felt like crying and i missed her so much! and i kept on looking at her..until she approached me and we talked and kissed..and today i saw her again and she was supposed to stay for a party but she left(she ditched me) and i found out she left me for her b/f..what should i do? how do i get over her!?
2007-01-28 17:10:43 · 4 answers · asked by pixie7 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
and if it chages anything im a girl
and i feel like i want her.....
sometimes i feel like crying when i dont have her in my arms
because the truth i wanna be the one that hugs her and kisses her in public i wanna be the on that says :yeah shes my girlfriend"
but i cant have that...so i have to get over her but how?
2007-01-28 17:12:31 · update #1
You are truly breaking my heart. You need to stay away from her. She's crushing you're heart and you're letting her. It's not gonna be easy, but you have to take care of you because nobody else will. Try going to places you've never been. If you usually hang out at a particular place and you my see her, than stop going there. You'll want to go "just in case" she's there. Don't go. You'll want to answer her calls.Don't answer. Delete her number from your phone. You'll want to answer her emails. Don't answer. Delete her from your address book. She doesn't deserve you. Start erasing her from your life and i guarantee when you are over her and not looking, you will meet a girl who wants to kiss you back in public and love you and never cheat on you and respect you.
Be strong. The crushing pain will eventually fade and be replace with something extraordinary. Come back to q&a for suppport.
2007-01-28 17:28:56 · answer #1 · answered by jessiclause 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
that was some twist you gave! you being a girl made it very difficult for me to give a straight answer.
anyway, so i'm not going to say that you falling in love with her is a mortal sin. but i hope you understand it is wrong. well, basically girls are created for men and vice versa.
but those things aside, you have to understand that there are already lots of instances in your story where she chose her BF over you. it means that yes she likes/loves you. but she's not ready to leave her BF for you. unless she really dumps him for you, you will always be her b tch. sorry.
find some other things to do that would keep you away from her. if you must meet her, keep it to a simple hi. eventually, you will get accustomed to not seeing her everyday and talking to her all the time. and hopefully you can finally get over your feelings for her
2007-01-29 01:34:58 · answer #2 · answered by Coolitz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By deciding to stop being her doormat. She is a cheater. She has cheated on her boyfriend. What makes you think she wouldn't cheat on you if you were in a relationship?
2007-01-29 01:15:59 · answer #3 · answered by Liz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to move on, it about respect short and sweet, she
not giving that to you and you deserve that and until you
let her know that you done with all the bull crap, she will continue
to play iwth your feelings time to cut her loose once and for
all.
2007-01-29 01:39:28 · answer #4 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋