2007-01-28 16:35:10 · 8 answers · asked by luvnlife 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
because usually when one person loves the other, that other person doesn't love them the same way........and when that other person finally does love them the same way, the original person then doesn't share the same love......it's like a see saw that can never get the right balance....I speak from experience but I hope I'm wrong.
2007-01-28 16:40:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well... Here's a toughie. If you consider "Love" is just when you love someone, that's not too difficult. Keep looking, and eventually you'll find someone you can love. The problem is, until that someone realizes that you love him/her, you 'll suffer. And then you'll suffer a bit more, and ask yourself if you did something wrong to deserve such pain. Nope, you didn't, that's just what happens when you love someone that doesn't loves you back
If you aren't too hideous, you shall also find people who will love you, even though you may only like 'em or even dislike 'em altogether. And they will love you and suffer for you, no matter what you do. You may accept their love, or ran from it, but alas, they will suffer anyway.
Now, "True Love", is, in my opinion, when you fall in love with someone that simultaneously falls in love with you. This is quite rare.
So, to answer your question, I think true love is so hard to find just because of a matter of statistics.
But, keep the faith and keep on searching! Remember, "Lightning may strike..."
2007-01-29 00:50:14 · answer #2 · answered by San La Muerte 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
peoples idea of what true love is different. What I consider true love others think of as crap. The best we can do is find someone that shares our values and goals. Also you can have love but the true love is something that needs to grow and be nurtured.
2007-01-29 00:49:54 · answer #3 · answered by musicman2513 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because TRUE people are very rare. And most people don't have TRUE feelings anymore, Love is just a game (in america)
2007-01-29 00:47:38 · answer #4 · answered by kaizoku 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just depends on where you are looking (try up). I feel that I have found it with my husband of 4 years, but not before finding the best love of all thru Christ Jesus, I'm really not preaching here - it is just so so so true....God Bless you... :)
2007-01-29 00:52:56 · answer #5 · answered by S A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because TRUE people are hard to find. Most people put up fronts that aren't real.
2007-01-29 01:44:39 · answer #6 · answered by PeteyPablo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because people have unrealistic expectations of their soul mate.
2007-01-29 00:40:39 · answer #7 · answered by Xfactor 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was going to say what Xfactor said .. Good Work =]
2007-01-29 00:45:55 · answer #8 · answered by missdramatick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋